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Big Spoon or Little Spoon? 😼 [Poll + Monthly Community Post]

POLL TIME: Would you rather be the BIG or LITTLE Spoon? Or do you like to fall asleep entirely else? Vote & Comment your thoughts down below!

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Song Recommendation of the Month:  Minefield - Faouzia
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Hello hello hello my dearest and sweetest Pengu, 🐧🐧🐧🩷🩷🐧🐧

November is here now. We are getting into the final sprint of this year. Looking back I had a very full and rich year, that I am absoluetly grateful for. Hopefully I can also live to my fullest potential in November! Although I am back to Uni - i want to try and take more time for myself, which I often struggle with.

That aside - how was your October Month? Let's do a little recap and leave a comment about your highlights and what could have been better! 🗯️🗣️

My Highlight: Getting 50k!!!! on Youtube which is really insane - and then reading ALL your super sweet comments!!

What could have been better:  Hmmm.... i wish I could have taken more time out for myself and did things I enjoy. Hopeuflly i can do that this month.

I've been really happy with how I've been getting a lot of work done and being very productive lately. In October I managed to post almost every day on Patreon and upload multiple youtube videos. And I am content with how it turned out.... being back to uni gave me also a lot of structure to get things done I guess. - Alsoo i am having fun creating audios for all of you sweet souls.

I'll be honest - i dont have anything special planned for November as far as content goes. I already have a few things finished and ready to edit for this month, but I definetly still need more sooo
...If you have any wishes for this months content, then let me know <3!

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And, finally, as always, i prepared a little message for you to take into the new month. 💕

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Finally, if you are from the Curious Pengu Tier or higher, you can send me 3-5 lines per DM and I'll read them for you :)!

Much much love,
Daliah <3

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Comments

little spoon all the way xD but i'm also a switch so i would enjoy either LMAO October was definitely more of a work month for me because I met new people I had to work with and we held an event that was like an art gallery and silent disco combined together

phibi

Ahwww Peter, i hope you get to experience more like it then! I dont think its a cultural expectation, but depends on the person you are in a relationship in with? But i am no expert

Daliah Asmr

As a cis straight male, most of my experience was the big spoon. Is that normal or just the cultural expectation? I don’t know, but when I’ve been the little spoon I really loved it. There’s something about being embraced so closely from behind, it’s special and comforting.

Peter Davidson

Thank you for saying that. Incidentally, you wouldn't happen to know anyone who would be willing to volunteer, would you?

Tremor_Doc_Michael

ahwww i love that so much!

Daliah Asmr

Thats okay one day you will

Daliah Asmr

One day you will 💗

Daliah Asmr

I agree!

Daliah Asmr

Thank you sm Firefly 💗

Daliah Asmr

This post was a nice way to start the day, the gentle reminder helps. Congrats on 50k

Firefly

Honestly, being the big spoon makes me happy to help someone feel safe, but since the surgery I'm finding myself wishing I could be a little spoon whilst I heal up.

Tremor_Doc_Michael

Couldn't possibly agree more. It'd be nice if there was a way to look/ask for cuddles without leading to misunderstanding.

Tremor_Doc_Michael

never actually been in a relationship so i don"t truly know what its like to be either the Big Spoon or the Little Spoon

Nicholas Sholtis

Both. Both is good

Michael Dong

I prefer big spoon

Arch

I prefer to be the little spoon.

Wreath35

Exactly

Windows XP

Yep

Windows XP

Going for what I want. Cause sadly, I've never had the chance to be either.

Inevitable-Ad8384

I’m sure I speak for a lot of folk out here, we just wanna be a goddamn spoon.

WeirdlyTechnichal


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