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How control shapes your life

A really interesting look at external versus internal locus of control, and how you can utilize it to live your best life

How control shapes your life

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Yeah I think a nuanced approach per situation is best; and it can be difficult if you know you have a *tendency* to lean one way or the other. But implementing it can be very helpful!

Anna Akana

I think a robust person actually decides how to see an instance of an event, i.e. decides whether they want to take control or not and does so after looking at the available facts. I know I do it like that. But I get that this can be hard, depending on circumstances and personal history. And often it is not readily obvious what is actually going on. Having the information from the video is definitely helpful for many people.

Tansi

haha thank you!

Anna Akana

You explained this so much better than my counselor, hahah

mrb

Didn't know that was called locus of control, definitely an interesting concept and as usual the ideal is somewhere in the middle rathercthan diving to either extremes.

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