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Maps being your second most used app is probably a great sign
Jamie Hauken
2025-06-20 15:04:24 +0000 UTCWAI is my addiction
Daidreemer
2025-03-31 16:38:03 +0000 UTC13:00 I do it because it's pretty and when I do patterns the scars look better than tattoos in my opinion
nVerse
2025-03-31 11:59:23 +0000 UTCi have a waterbottle i covered in hentai stickers bc my friend gave us giant waterbottles for galetines and they bought a fuck ton of stickers off temu. i thought it'd be funny to do and the waterbottle is huge so i knew I'd only use it at home tbh
May S
2025-03-26 22:54:49 +0000 UTCIt could also be she likes a more dominant person in bed and doesn't want to have to tell you what to do. Something I would suggest every couple do take one of those blind kink surveys. It ranges from pretty vanilla stuff to more extreme things. But it only tells you what your partner answered if you both said the same thing. Stress free way to get some insight.
BS
2025-03-26 20:00:21 +0000 UTCFolks having sex problems should read the book Come As You Are.... it's life changing
Hanna
2025-03-25 23:03:10 +0000 UTChad a lot of fun listening to this one, very interesting stuff. i'd like to see more takes on these sorta tough questions. yippee wine about it yay !
Ikaika :/
2025-03-25 09:44:58 +0000 UTCIntimate question pertaining to the first story… my girlfriend and I (M) have been seeing each other for over a year and a half now. We have a very active sex life but communication around the subject has always been very difficult. This is confusing because I hear stories from the woman’s perspective where they are looking for more communication and the roles almost feel flip flopped. I know her favorite position is doggy (as she directs me there often). Other than that communication I get when asked what she likes is “do whatever feels best for you” and “I can’t tell you what to do it’s an in the moment feeling”. I get the feeling she doesn’t want to tell me what she likes because she’ll get in her head about it thinking “oh he’s only doing this bc I told him to” making it harder for her to focus on the orgasm. Any other women with similar thoughts? Any tips?
Ahhhh
2025-03-24 23:31:20 +0000 UTCAs far as I'm aware, the massage loop hole is just how escort services work in countries where it's illegal
VraelRahl
2025-03-23 05:45:30 +0000 UTCDid anyone else have a weird video glitch from 22:00 - 22:05?
Ansley Partosa
2025-03-22 15:51:14 +0000 UTCQT saying she wants to delete social media off her phone. This is something I did with the exception of YouTube (useful for tutorials) and LinkedIn (used for applying for jobs). I found myself doom scrolling for hours a day and my attention span was none existent. I tried the time limits but found I just kept adding time to it. Knowing this wasn't working, I finally deleted them. This was months ago. I still find i pick up my phone out of habit as I need my hands to be busy due to autism. However, now when i pick up my phone, I unlock it, stare blankly at it as I have no games or social media on it, lock the phone and grab a fidget toy or something else. My phone is pretty much just a phone these days. I call, I message and if I need to look something up, it is a web browser or YouTube display. My 2 most used apps after purging my phone are probably YouTube Music and google maps because I drive a lot. My attention span has got better than it was but still isn't great. At the end of the day, I am still a YouTube frog on the big screen as I don't watch normal TV. YouTube being mostly 10-30 minute videos means I still mainly watch only shortish form content. This all being said, I have felt massive benefits from purging my phone and have recommended to my sister she does the same. I don't think anyone should have unencumbered access to social media and think it is far more detrimental in many ways than it is beneficial.
Funky Raven
2025-03-22 11:23:37 +0000 UTCI never understand people when they think "My ex should never be happy" but never look at it from the perspective that they themselves, are someones ex. Does that mean they themselves are never allowed to be happy? Does that mean that the world only gives people one shot at happiness and if you don't find the partner you spend the rest of your life with on the first try, then you are both meant to be eternally screwed from that day forward?
Funky Raven
2025-03-22 10:21:33 +0000 UTCLook up the "Pareto principle" to see the original 80/20 concept. Its a useful rule-of-thumb (just not for dating)
Michael J.
2025-03-21 15:36:32 +0000 UTCThe 80-20 rule is about the hierarchy among men. It’s stupid but essentially 20% of the men in the world sleep or date 80% of the women out there becasue only 20% of the men in the world are like hot or successful and get majority of the pussy. Ya it’s stupid because I’ve dated plenty of unsuccessful and lame men in my life and know a lot of women who have married such men as well 😭 I guess incels have also taken it upon themselves to use it as an excuse to not work on themselves and blame the world for their problems.
Lizzy
2025-03-21 14:08:55 +0000 UTCThe no makeup trope is so stupid from both sides. Of course a little makeup is going to make someone look more attractive. However, what i think most of the "less makeup more better" guys are actually getting at is that deep down they crave authentic interactions with women. They've associated makeup with women who have multiple walls up both emotionally and physically, most prominently by painting on a whole new face. Which in itself is a problem for many other underlying reasons. Of course both the guylies and the girlies have good reasons for their respective behaviors and society is just kinda fucked because we're all more divided than ever. But if you don't think too deeply about it it's the makeup's fault 🤠
Experimental Cyborg
2025-03-21 12:03:27 +0000 UTCThis episode flew by! I wonder if Maya thinks watching porn is cheating? The way she made it sound that masturbating while watching porn is bad makes me think so hmmm
Jose Marin
2025-03-20 20:34:29 +0000 UTCIk this is off topic (I think I haven't watched the ep yet) but I just wanted to say thank you Maya and QT and motivating me to start going to therapy. You're some of the only content creators that talk about mental health in an honest and genuine way, instead of (yellow guy hands up) everyone should take care of their mental, clickbait title, etc. Sorry that the parasocials have made yall be less open, but it's totally understandable.
77katz77
2025-03-20 18:56:14 +0000 UTCOmg I feel that I need to be listening to something constantly yeah I do things but unless I’m with people I need something to listen to
Njoy
2025-03-20 18:22:42 +0000 UTCtherapy or affording food for the month? I'll take food, sorry.
Daniel Bolduc
2025-03-20 18:20:51 +0000 UTCThe 80-20 rule is incel math like another commenter said and i only hear it brought up from guys who are using it as excuse to avoid working on themselves by blaming society for their virginity. My take on it is that they are just reframing the fact that men are held to such a low standard so most of them are undatable in a way that blames women.
Corra Brodbeck
2025-03-20 18:07:39 +0000 UTCI think it means that only 20% of men in the us date 80% of the women the rest 80% of men date or don’t at all date 20% of the others idk I’m confused myself
Njoy
2025-03-20 18:06:24 +0000 UTCThat's not incel math, it's dating app math.
rainycake
2025-03-20 12:25:53 +0000 UTCOn the phone addiction thing, I've heard that turning your phone to greyscale helps a lot because your brain is also addicted to the bright colors that are everywhere online. So that way you can still do everything you'd need to, but in theory are less compelled to just mindlessly use it all the time.
Justnoodlecup
2025-03-20 11:46:16 +0000 UTC"your brain is made to keep you alive not keep you happy" oh yea well how come it's not very good at that FIRST one EITHER 😡😂
Carto
2025-03-20 01:27:26 +0000 UTCI’m convinced that philosophers became famous only because they were men. Based off this video, men not be having the deepest thoughts 😅
Katie Pacer
2025-03-20 00:47:57 +0000 UTC80-20 rule I think is that 20% of men sleep with 80% of women . Some incel maths
MarQ
2025-03-19 21:39:00 +0000 UTCLove how there's less and less candles with each Patreon bonus lmaoo
Attabui
2025-03-19 21:27:52 +0000 UTCfor the screentime i just downloaded this app called screenzen which is free and you can set limits and it will only let you use whatever app you decide for a certain amount of time
Arden
2025-03-19 20:48:41 +0000 UTCWow you guys filmed so many patreon episodes <3
RunWithWaffles
2025-03-19 19:18:08 +0000 UTCwowie
AxialMars
2025-03-19 19:02:25 +0000 UTCwahoo!
Faye852
2025-03-19 19:01:53 +0000 UTC
