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[#106] Uncensored - Happy New Year!

This week, Maya and QT discuss their merch launch, provide updates on the It Ends With Us situation, and talk about Lilly Jay's essay regarding the Ariana Grande and Ethan Slater situation.

[#106] Uncensored - Happy New Year!

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Honestly, I get that Ariana is way more famous than any of the guys, but IMO the guys don`t get enough hate compared to her?? Like, Ethan fucking cheated on his wife, she almost died, they had a new baby and he fucking cheated. It doesn`t matter if it's a girl down the street or the Ariana Grande. I feel crazy about this.

Michela Lorenti

In my world there's nothing lower than a homewrecker.

soloPFL

Maya said that she didn't want to mention Ariana's upbringing and how it still isn't an excuse, but it's back to the Blake Lively thing. She can be a victim of child stardom, growing up in an unimaginable environment under so much scrutiny *and* a bitch. Those two truths can exist at the same time

mich

Pertaining to the Ariana thing, even Pete's ex-who he was with before he got with Ariana-has come out and said that he cheated on her with Ariana. I think majority, if not all the men she has been with, she essentially stole according social media and the few reports from exs, which is sad. My question is...does she not have a therapist and do celebrity therapists just not discuss these things with their clients...because it's so messed up. Like whether you like her music or not, it's such an awful thing to keep doing.

xoxo_gems

Even if it's not actively being talked about, I think her point in part of the essay was that the damage has already been done, because it's always out there when you Google her name. In trying to be a private person who didn't have social media, I imagine when you Google her name, only a few results are about her professional life (maybe the website of her therapy practice, maybe a LinkedIn, maybe a conference or two she spoke at). Those links probably don't get a lot of clicks unless you live in her state and are involved with therapy. The vast majority of the other Google results, forever, are probably articles that mention her name in relation to the drama with ex-husband and Ariana, and Google likely pushes all those results to the top of any search. Whether it's real or imagined, she seems to believe that potential clients and colleagues see all the personal drama she's wrapped up in and steer clear. So it's better to get this essay out there and give her some humanity and ask people to give her a chance, instead of just being a passing mention in someone else's story.

BisonHero

2024 was the year of QT looking like Margot Robbie. 2025 is the year of QT looking like Chappell Slayyy

XL Macro

Wait the therapist wanted to be obscure so she wrote a piece for the ny times months after everyone stopped talking about her???

BS

So i knew 2 people with more fame than twitch streamers. One being a voice actor in a prominent show and 1 being an anchor on a popular comedy show. At least at their level the gossip didn't stop. Everybody loves gossip and the more famous you get the more access you have to juicier gossip. There was always a line with what they were willing to share. A lot of behind the scenes stuff that I never heard about before was talked about but some stuff it was like I didn't have high enough security clearance to hear it lol

BS

So regarding the Ariana topic (and maybe the Blake topic I guess?), I have a question, as someone who doesn’t mind hearing a bit of gossip about people I know but I don’t seek out celebrity gossip at all: is there a level of fame people achieve where they detach from the celebrity gossip machine because they’re in too deep? Does Angelina Jolie still pick up a copy of People magazine and read hot goss about Jennifer Anniston and Kate Middleton? I know QT and Maya are nowhere near Hollywood A-list celebrity, but they are Twitch internet famous enough that they’ve both been the focus of headlines on certain websites that distort their actions or intentions to fit a certain negative narrative. So I guess I’m surprised they’re not more jaded about celebrity news presenting things without full context, when they’re personally familiar with gossipy sites/accounts tearing them down for the clicks. No judgment on QT and Maya, they can like what they like, but just as a viewer, seeing some of the attempted character assassination they’ve both endured, it gives me a distaste for the entirety of it. So back to the Ariana thing. It’s a beautifully written essay from the therapist lady, but I also feel strongly that we just don’t know the state of their marriage that then led to their divorce. I want to imagine that close friends and family of therapist lady and musical actor guy have a different understanding of why the marriage fell apart, compared to the simplistic public perception that Ariana just swooped in to steal a married man. The swoop is the spicier, good-vs-bad version, but humans are messy and I assume the truth is much more complex.

BisonHero

For Blake and her talking about the movie it seems there is evidence that that was the way to promote it. So she was following that.

Daidreemer

When maya said “i could cry” i sat there w tears already running down my face for a minute lmao.

Melanie Stewart

however i do acknowledge that living in a split household also sucks because i have seen that as well

rylee tanner

when QT said, "do you know what's bad for children? divorce" my first thought was, "do you know what"s bad for children? growing up with parents who hate each other but won't divorce 'for the benefit of the children' but really they just cause more trauma than they would have if they just divorced" - not that i know wha that's like or anything lol

rylee tanner

most things in life aren't very black and white, and over time it's only fair if most mistakes turn a fainter gray at some point (within reason)

Ruben

The fact she needed to demand an intimacy coordinator on a hollywood movie about abuse when every rinky dink backdoor theater production I've worked on has had one when there was even slightly intimate choreography is an inditement on the entire production team.

Travis Nugent

I love the focus on the nuance about Ethan and Ari, but Naya did confirm in an interview after the release of her book that she was not insinuating in any way that they were having an affair.

enbenby

the shirts are so cute, not a fan of a lot of streamer merch but just placed my order for my wine about it shirt 😎

burger

yippee

the.black.dog.13

Phew, OK, I'm glad QT clarified it was an essay and not an interview. If that therapist was able to just fire off that level of beautiful prose while speaking off-the-cuff, mid-interview, no prep, she'd be like top 5 most eloquent geniuses alive, and I would feel like a caveman by comparison.

BisonHero

As someone who did something awful to someone I really cared about, I appreciate QTs perspective on forgiveness and "2 truths". It helped me feel less like a monster and more like a human who made a mistake.

ChillsPaysBills

47:27 My mom was a therapist for the first 20 years of my life (she's since switched professions), and she would talk about going to see her own therapist as well. Definitely pretty common from what I know, and it makes sense; therapists are going to be much more likely than the average person to realize if they could benefit from therapy.

PoetryStud

Felt so hard 😭

Lilith Jenovax

Blake is basically suing him for workplace violations. In the simplest sense its like suing him because he took a retaliatory action against her for making, essentially, an HR complaint.

Mars

QT’s gonna be so mad when she sees what came out today about Blake 😂

Jaded Kills

was about to get butterfly Tshirt but remembered that it's a 10th of my monthly earnings so I didn't sadge

tyongflight

wahoo!

Faye852

Agreed, I really want the butterfly one but in the same colours as the snake!

KT

But if you make the other one in more colors I'll get that

Deanna

I got the wine bottle one cuz I can't deal with white shirts lol I'm not responsible like that.

Deanna

i love ariana like QT loves taylor, and ive loved her since victorious. i was also very disappointed in her but also not surprised 😔 she and also pete davidson cheated on their partners to be with each other, so it really is a pattern for her and i hope she can work through it (and doesn’t break up marriages into her 80s 😭)

hollieb0o

Hold - Maya - Happy New Year to You is the new - Rabbie Burns - Auld Lang Syne

GRRYBNAS

crayzee

Ewe A Cicada

wowie

AxialMars


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