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Little Vent.

Sometimes, I really hate being an ASMRtist. The amount of messages and comments I've gotten lately calling me a whore and to suck their dick is really starting to get under my skin. I'll finish off these 12 days, but boy am I going to be glad not uploading anything or doing anything for my channel for a couple weeks. I'm stressed and tired and people really fucking suck sometimes. But not you guys :) You guys are awesome. Thank you so much for supporting me and not being jerks. It means a lot and I hope I can't actually help you guys with my videos. It's all I want to do... but people have to go and be dumb with sexual comments. Which is another tangent i could go on about in and of itself. Sex is a big thing with human nature and I'm not saying it's a bad thing, just the comments and rudeness is frustrating and uncalled for. I do these for the sounds. But damn I really want to quit right now 😂 I won't. Just... bleh. Okay work time :/ Love you all! Sorry for such a dumb, sensitive post. I'm fine. It's all good. Just... yeah.

Comments

You're amazing. Thanks for the genuine support and kind words bud 😍😍😍

FrivolousFox ASMR

Turning off comments or don't have visuals for those kind of videos could be an option. (But I heard the same from 'ASMR Chershi' for not even having mouth sounds etc. in her videos and those comments really got to her too, I think it's just the general problem of most people not even understanding what ASMR is and youtube beeing on 'the internet')

People gonna people, especially on youtube. Hope you can just find the endurance to keep going. Or you can disable comments on videos, which personally I would recommend. I appreciate all your efforts to make us such super good videos though.

Anthony Migues

It only takes a minority of idiots to spoil things. Sadly it seems all too common. I think you can disable comments if it's got so bad. Really enjoying your ASMR videos though (hence the recent Patreon subscription). Have a great Christmas holiday.

Mark Pearce

I wish I knew what to say to get you to brush all this off. But I don't. I wish I knew what to say to make you see things the way I do. Because what gets to me is stuff like this. I can field the trolls all day long, but when you feel bad I feel bad along with you. But there's nothing to say, I guess. So just know I empathize and hope you enjoy your duly earned break 😊

KJ

Additionally: to all of my fellow frivvy fans, remember to flag any innapropriate comments you see.

This is the internet, so anyone can watch your videos, I think the best thing to do is ignore the immature creeps and not mention them in the videos/descriptions because that just encourages them, just block them when you see them in the comments, and know that your real fans will always have your back. Also, remember that there is NOTHING wrong with taking time off, your real fans who truly care about your well-being will not be dissapointed, your happiness is always more important than uploads. Have a wonderful and relaxing holiday! <3

Hey Friv, in the mean time, have a look into The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, might help you out with the negative comments and help see them from a different perspective :)

Not being understood is a painful thing!and also someone are so despicable that you can not cure him!Hang in there !

You could not read any youtube comments for a couple weeks. I donate a buck or two to several artist simply to access there patreon feed. If I want to be sure an artist reads my comment I post on the patreon feed.

Jason aka asmrpeople

This isn't dumb at all. Your feelings are completely valid. Some people truly have no manners or consideration, and that's upsetting. I know this is wrong, but sometimes I like to imagine them living alone and unhappy all their lives😝. But he reality is they don't know how to love, and that's a whole heck of a lot sadder for them. But you are a lover, and you're too strong to let anything change that. That's why I believe in you.

McCloud

It's too bad. ASMR fans should be the most altruistic fans on youtube, given what I believe the roots of tingles to be. Hang in there & look into comment word filters.

Jason aka asmrpeople

Yeah people suck, they need to grow up and quit crying for attention. Just think of them as a bunch of stupid monkeys making noise.

Sorry you have to deal with all that bullshit and negativity. Easier said than done, but do your best to ignore it. Vent all you want, if it makes you feel better. You got plenty of support from your fans. Have a great day! 😀

Tony XM


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