I know chastity isn't a universal cuckold desire. I know it's not a universal hotwife/cuckoldress desire, either. I do feel like the hotwives out there that don't indulge in at least a bit of chastity play are really missing out, though.
He has to be submissive, of course. It's no fun if he's whining all the time or demanding to be released. A bratty cuckold is a boring cuckold as far as I'm concerned.
It's the control that's fun. It's him knowing that I'm the one that gets to decide if he experiences even a hint of pleasure. It's him getting increasingly desperate for release with each passing day.
By the third or fourth day in lock up it takes nothing more than a kiss or a gentle touch to drive him crazy with desire. If I walk by in something even remotely suggestive he can't keep his eyes off of me. If I happen to let him see me naked he looks utterly enraptured. I like that. I love that. I crave that sense of adoration. I find great pleasure in the control that it gives me, too.
When he's in that state he'll do anything for me. Literally anything. What's even better, though, is that he finds genuine pleasure in doing it. Now, he's into service so that's part of his pleasure, but the denial enhances every delightful sensation he experiences.
I enjoy the extended teasing sessions. I like to start with an act of service, like a massage. A nice, long full body massage. If he does a good job I'll let him rub my breasts and give my pussy attention with his tongue. If he does a very good job I'll tease him once he's finished.
In that case, the tease is almost always that he gets on his back and I ride his caged cock. I'm always exceptionally wet after a massage and it's easy to guide his locked appendage inside me and gently ride it. I move my hips back and forth and bathe him in my wetness. Depending on how long he's been denied he can really do some writhing beneath me.
He says it can be a bit painful when I tease him like that as his cock tries to grow in the cage. There have been a few times where his cage has failed, in fact, because he was just too turned on and he broke containment. Most of the time, though, he remains caged and awash in pleasure. The thing is, though, that the pleasure is always tempered by the fact that he won't be cumming while he's caged. He can get close, but he can't get all the way there without my permission.
How delightful to have that control. Sometimes he gets to come out and have an orgasm. Sometimes he gets teased for a while and then I sit on his face and cum. Either way, I have a splendidly good time and so does he. After all, he's a cuckold that craves denial.