in regards to discord, alastair made one for book stuff. maybe ask him? idk
Jordan Cambra
2023-10-26 01:51:03 +0000 UTC
After 50+ years of being together (gay) and now a widower, I get very nice satisfaction using Hot Octopuss (not misspelled). It is hand held but you can just "clamp" it on the end of your stick and do hands free. Especially good at pounding your glans. There are also toys out there that are app controlled by your partner; you control his device and he controls your device all the while video chatting. Options you may want to look at.
Dwight
2023-10-25 20:28:53 +0000 UTC
Great episode and topics Zach, thanks!
Ron Navarette
2023-10-23 00:28:14 +0000 UTC
I've never been fortunate enough to have a relationship but if I did I can't imagine not being totally faithful to a partner/husband. I'm giving all of me to them and only them. Hey Zach, for our next Zach After Dark can you muse on the Taylor Swift-Travis Kelce phenomenon?
Bobby
2023-10-22 02:38:29 +0000 UTC
Damn nail on the head, my husband and I have been together 5 years now, and same conversations about Monogomy and or Open Relationship. Its refreshing to know we are not “weird” for talking about that stuff.
Trevor H
2023-10-21 17:50:52 +0000 UTC
Okay, I fully admit I'm not a Britney fag, but I do feel for her and all she's endured over the years. I hope this book is cathartic for her mental health.
Zach, I'm so glad you and Alastair talk about everything. COMMUNICATION IS KEY TO A GOOD, WORKING RELATIONSHIP. I said that louder for anyone who may need that advice.
I think there's a big difference between open relationships and one where you and your partner happen into a threesome in the spur of the moment. Everyone I know who's in an open relationship is like, I do my thing, he does his thing, we don't talk about what we've done, but we're both aware of what we're not telling. Personally, I don't think that's healthy, but those I know who do that, it seems to work for them, so power to them.
Now, as far as getting myself off, it does seem like more of a daily chore than it does a necessity. Like, oh yeah, maybe I should go spank one out right now while I'm thinking of it. Lol
Finally, I would never show my face again if I accidentally sent a dick pic to my family. I totally felt secondhand embarrassment for you!
Chris Metzger
2023-10-21 16:13:46 +0000 UTC
I totally agree that porn has become boring. An older (bi) friend of mine complains he can't find anything with a story line... and I'm like, yeah, thanks Sean Cody. (Reminds me: A friend of mine used to call out "Sean Cody" loudly in crowds or lineups, as if he was calling someone he recognized - just to see who would react!)
Watching porn has become worse than routine for me - habitual - if I don't climax I don't fall asleep at night! These days I click through 90% of the videos I see because I'm really just searching for any evidence the performers are actually enjoying what they're doing and not just getting paid, or advertising their onlyfans (where they also get paid)
Ryan Barry
2023-10-21 14:56:24 +0000 UTC
open relationships are the death of a marriage...
Renato filippini
2023-10-21 14:08:27 +0000 UTC
Thank the lord for the palm sisters Zach. I believe it would be tough on the intimacy part of a relationship with deployment. I am unfamiliar with discord? I will research, I have enjoyed seeing familiar names over the years. Zach always appreciate your work, I remember every live lol, the one Alastair got a bit tipsy was so much fun I laughed most of the way through. Always appreciated stay strong during deployment. Love you two now as always Brad.