FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM April Update!
Added 2025-05-01 01:25:00 +0000 UTCJuly 21, 2025: FlirtyFetishes: BDSiM is compatible with latest patch! I will be checking out the new pack and let you know about its compatibility. Please expect an update with new stuff soon!
Please let us know if you encounter any issues in the issue-awareness channel!
PS. Expect some new things in FF before the end of the month!
Hey! This month's update has no new additions. However, I did do some behind the scenes fixes to help some things run smoother along with temporarily removing the BDSiM Meter/SimDrop feature.
The poll indicated that about 50/50 either want it or don't. I am going to work with my team to see what can be done to make everyone satisfied. I want to make this Sims 4 BDSM mod darker for those who want to be really freaky. Yet, I do want lighter elements for those who enjoy the more IRL type of BDSM experience.
That being said, I plan on introducing a tier for those of you would like to work with me and test out my mod before I release it to the general public and other tiers. The BETA did appeared to be a bit chaotic. I think this will be a wonderful way to engage with you all, get to know each other, and really create something hot and worthy. So keep your eyes out!
Thank you all for your support! Now that I have received plenty of your feedback, May's update is going to be niiiiiccceeeee. I am currently working on some exciting things, some involve a leash, others involve...well, unprotected ejaculation? You'll have to wait to find out!
March Change Log:
BDSiM Meter is no longer visible
SimDrop doesn't occur as easy as before. (Let me know if it needs more!)
Added "Spank" category to Training Session
Training Session Socials increase Dominant and submissive Major skills
"Spank Pussy" x 2 Socials have been added to the Sadist Pie Menu
Added "End D/s Dynamic Calmly" Social
All Skill Books have been readded and function!
NEW EVE Custom Content added as Rewards from the Training Session
There were a lot of things I edited in the background as well to help the interactions with Sims run more smoothly, such as lower the risk of jealousy.
Please let me know what you think!
Comments
Hi! The mod is initiated with BDSiM traits being added to Sims via the Rewards Store or Wicked Attributes. Check out the guide pinned on my Patreon for more!
EllaNoir
2025-09-07 19:09:31 +0000 UTCHey! Sorry for the delay. I have been sick with a cold. But hmm, I'm not sure why that is happening. Is WW working okay? Trying downloading a new .ts4script and try again please.
EllaNoir
2025-09-07 19:08:32 +0000 UTCHello, I put the script and mod files in the mod folder, then where can I actively use the mod in the game? what should i do
Cora Sever Konuşmayı
2025-09-06 21:52:20 +0000 UTChi, i have your mod and for some reason the traits are only showing up in the rewards section and not in the wicked whims section, is there any fix to this as i dont want to spend my points!
sundrop
2025-08-30 12:56:24 +0000 UTCHi! I apologize for this inconvenience. Luckily, a new version that aims to solve the issues you've mentioned! Ah, I was not aware of this. There are only so many scenarios I can create in the game to test before I have to release it. I appreciate you letting me know and I'll look into this!
EllaNoir
2025-08-06 03:04:20 +0000 UTCHello! For some reason, the BDSiM now drops to needing aftercare after every sexual interaction - whether it's with my sim's D/S partner or not, will it be okay for me to go back to an older version of the mod for now? I do prefer how before I could manually adjust it as needed. Also there are instances where I'm not allowed to have aftercare used - for example if the sim needing it is hyper-focused. Would it be possible to allow them to still jog if in their first pregnancy trimester too?
Mellori
2025-08-06 00:35:34 +0000 UTCHi! Well, I am thrilled to know my mod isn't that disappointing and you downloaded TS4 just to check it out! Thank you, I am honored. You are actually in luck. I am about to release a new tier option that will initiate a small, exclusive group that will be able to work with me with my upcoming projects. So just look out for that! I appreciate your feedback. I created this BDSM mod for the Sims 4 about 4 years ago. And it first only had 2 traits to play with. Now this mod has 10+ traits, custom animations, moods, skills, social events , and so much more. I have a master plan to grow FlirtyFetishes and believe me, I am closer than ever to introducing a lot of what you have suggested here! Therefore, rest assured, I hear you, I see you, and I got you :)
EllaNoir
2025-08-04 18:05:42 +0000 UTCHi Ella! Excellent work on the mod so far. I honestly downloaded the Sims 4 just to play it haha and wasn't too disappointed. (1) I would love to see some harder D/s components available within the game. You mention you want to include this in another BDSM mod. I would love to play test it. How could I get access to the Beta? I may need to update my membership, since I am a $1/month slave. (2) I enjoy playing as a sub male. I moved into my Mistress' house, gave her all my money, and took her last name. But I didn't realize that in the Sims 4 you control everyone in your family. Is there any way to mod it so that you only control one character in your family unit? For example, if I am the sub I need to follow what the Domme says or else there will be consequences in all aspects of my life? If I am the Domme I do not control the sub character but I get to tell his AI what to do and "train him" into obedience. That addition would make it a lot more spicy for me! Thanks and looking forward to your future updates!
Bob Smith
2025-07-30 21:24:45 +0000 UTCI have no idea what kinky whims is. Therefore, it is not needed for FlirtyFetishes. Is there something I can help you with, perhaps?
EllaNoir
2025-07-30 03:54:42 +0000 UTCHi, the collaring feature is unlocked once the Dom/me Sim is a Master/Mistress and the sub Sim is a slave.
EllaNoir
2025-07-30 03:53:48 +0000 UTCit seems to absolutely not work without kinky whims, which is practically wiped off the internet..?
ny
2025-07-30 02:33:11 +0000 UTCGood morning for some strange reason I can’t give them a collar no matter what I do. If I have the party or not
Moe
2025-07-28 12:03:58 +0000 UTCHello! I don't know if i am too dumb but where is the issue-awareness channel? here or in the discord? I installed your mod together with wicked perversions. In the following game session i realized that i could no longer do sex animations as the sims always declined (had sex with them before). Standard sims 4 woohoo worked normal. I gave my Sim the dominant and demeaning trait. The other sims fitting counterparts. I removed FlirtyFetishes from my mod folder - and everything worked fine. Do i miss something gameplay-wise? Eg be in a bdsm relationship when traits are given or something like that. <3 Update: found the problem, wasn't Flirty Fetishes!
mrnevernever
2025-07-27 10:52:14 +0000 UTCThe April download is compatible with the recent patch if you are planning on updating your game.
EllaNoir
2025-07-22 03:06:09 +0000 UTCwich file do i have to download b4 putting the latest patches in??
Hanami Hhh
2025-07-22 03:03:21 +0000 UTCYes!
EllaNoir
2025-07-21 17:03:00 +0000 UTCHey! So is FF the only mod you have installed? Which folder is the .TS4SCRIPT file in? What is the only change you made?
EllaNoir
2025-07-21 15:25:13 +0000 UTCDownload April patch and not sure what I did wrong but game locked up, computer locked up and now cant get computer to even load beyond turning on.... I only made thst one change. Any advice
MistressWV
2025-07-21 07:24:49 +0000 UTCis this mod compatible with the latest patch?
Nevaeh
2025-07-04 08:41:06 +0000 UTCHey! Yay! Which version are you using?
EllaNoir
2025-06-23 14:40:48 +0000 UTCHi! I believe the furniture is from a different BDSM mod. My Sims 4 BDSM mod does not have furniture. Therefore, the BDSiM Dominant Role and Trait won't affect another mod's requirements. I hope you can figure it out!
EllaNoir
2025-06-23 14:40:06 +0000 UTCHi! Love you mod so much. I’ve been playing it a bit and really want my sim to be able to read the d/s books that you can purchase, but when I buy them they don’t show up in the book case. Do you have a solution? Thanks!
Serenity Kollasch
2025-06-22 19:59:34 +0000 UTCsameee. i'm about to test it again right now because i just read that the traits are in the ww wicked attributes and i never checked there LMAO
hobi's lvr
2025-06-22 08:43:21 +0000 UTCHi, I recently added your mod to the sims 4 but I’m not getting any of the traits. I installed as I normally do, extract file, then moved the necessary files to the mod folder. I can access the books, the skills, the clothes but not the actual actions or traits.
Infinnityverse
2025-06-22 05:11:50 +0000 UTCignore that babe, it says that for every mod
thatGirl
2025-06-19 18:39:39 +0000 UTCHi, I'm trying to download this, but nordvpn say this file has malware.
Jolee Peal
2025-06-19 07:30:12 +0000 UTCHey! I absolutely love this mod but I am having just one tiny conflict. I have 2 sims, sub and Dom they are both lvl.2, I also have things around their house like the spanking benches and such. I’m thinking, since my sim has the dominant trait he can use the bench on the sub but it’s still saying “only dominant sims can use” is there a certain level my sims have to be at before they can use the bdsm furniture?
exodus.ೃ࿐
2025-06-09 00:38:16 +0000 UTCYay! Ugh, yeah. I was excited for the Meter and SimDrop, but I can see how it needs to be polished up. Trial and error, I suppose! Thank you so much for your patience and kind words.
EllaNoir
2025-05-27 21:50:32 +0000 UTCThanks for being here! EllaNoir is reworking the meter to make it less dramatic, and making it so they can decide if/which sims have it.
Zara
2025-05-27 13:56:13 +0000 UTCI am glad you are looking into the BDSiM Meter, as what I have experienced was the Dom/Sub I was testing being always stressed out and on the verge of simdrop unless they were jogging. I am unsure if it is a conflict, as I have many mods or a bug, but the meter would not change, no matter their interaction. It would be amazing if certain actions and Wicked Whimps animations on certain categories made a difference. For the last part, I am not sure how easy or applicable it is, but it would deepen the effect of the mod as a whole.
IroSelena
2025-05-24 11:01:41 +0000 UTCI applaud your willingness to quickly adjust the Meter and Drop, which make my Sims constantly miserable. So much so I was about to remove the mod altogether as the only solution! I am pleased to see a new, less dramatic version, which I look forward to playing.
Scipio Garling
2025-05-10 14:25:34 +0000 UTCHi! Not showing up how?
EllaNoir
2025-05-05 18:33:50 +0000 UTCHi! Tysm! Yes, omg. I definitely have lesbian on top 3 right now. I hope to have some added this month for the training session!
EllaNoir
2025-05-05 18:32:37 +0000 UTCHi, flirty fetishes category is not longer showing. I love your mod so much so I want this to work. I tried taking out all my other mods. I still couldn't get it to work
Elsie
2025-05-05 09:56:28 +0000 UTCHi! I absolutely LOVE your mod and hope you go on adding new features, making it even more awsome and amazing, so I was wondering: do you plan to add some more lesbian interactions, in the future? If so, that would be great ♥
Uonder
2025-05-01 15:36:39 +0000 UTCHere's the guide ✨ https://www.patreon.com/posts/89176995?utm_campaign=postshare_fan&utm_content=android_share
Zara
2025-04-30 20:41:47 +0000 UTCUm how do I make a D/S role with my couple? Its been awhile since I've played this mod. Cheers
Cameron Rodd
2025-04-30 11:14:02 +0000 UTCHii! My Sims are sad all the time because of Simdrop :(
Gabriela García
2025-04-22 06:01:55 +0000 UTCHello, this is a beta that is still being played and tested to work all the kinks out. We appreciate your feedback and patience during this process! 😊
Zara
2025-04-11 13:14:15 +0000 UTCHi i was thinking that it would be nice to be able to turn off the simdrop like a setting in game for those that want it or not or maybe make it a full on optional file that people can take off their mods or make it customable like how many sim days it take before the sim get an alert that they're low/near a simdrop i personally like the idea of simdrop but it happen too QUICKLY like every sim day i have to make something cause i'm being warned my sims are going in simdrop its too much especially because i play with long lifespan and my sims got jobs and kids they can't pass all day making bdsm action i wish it was like once a couple sim days or sim week. Love your mod thks for the hard work :)
Emetrix
2025-04-05 23:20:05 +0000 UTCYay! Enjoy!
EllaNoir
2025-04-03 14:02:14 +0000 UTCHi! I apologize for this inconvenience. There would be a trait called EllaNoir_traitHidden_role_sub or something along those lines! Have you tried removing the buffs as well? Either way, I'll get right on this!
EllaNoir
2025-04-03 14:02:04 +0000 UTCHi! I was playing around just to check out the mod and I added the Brat trait via the Reward Store, but I removed it and I’m still getting moodlets for sub drop that can’t be right clicked away. Do you have any advice for this? I checked hidden traits, but I didn’t see any signs of the mod left despite the moodlets.
cerulean_crayon
2025-04-03 00:50:22 +0000 UTCYay! The Training Session works for me now after this update! I've been so excited for it, thank you!
sk8rgirl
2025-04-03 00:11:41 +0000 UTC
