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GAME TIME: The 28 Laws Of Seduction: Part 1 - 5



This blog post isn’t written to make you hate or have any resentment for women.


It’s written to help you understand them better.

I personally prefer hanging out and being around women more than being around men.

I don’t fuck with most guys like that 👍





Law 1


Women Are A Reflection Of Ourselves


To begin this I will start with the most important law of all... and that is

the understanding that women are not independent thinkers. They don't think in terms of


“Is this the truth”

They think from the mental frame of:

“will others accept me if I think this is true’’


This mentality originates back to tribal times where women and weak men

would conform to whatever the tribe's consensus was to not face exile.

Over years and years of conditioning this became habitual in the way women think. They follow whatever trend, political stance, or social norm is the most popular at the current time.


What I need you to understand is that men can use this knowledge to their

advantage. 

Women just reflect back to us whatever we think of ourselves or tell

them to think. 

You’ll notice a girl will start to date a guy and before you know it she has

all the same political views as him, hobbies, slang, etc. She literally adopts his entire personality. But also she also adopts his own views of himself. 


For example if you do not respect yourself, she will not respect you. If you are not confident in yourself, she will not be confident in you. 

She is an incredibly observant creature who will pick up on your body language, voice tonality, and eye movement. 

She will unconsciously read into these signs to determine your level of confidence and experience with other women.


You need to understand that this is also why women will listen to their friends

more than her boyfriend. If her friends tell her that he is a liar or cheater, she will believe it even if it is not true. 

So only the men who are extremely confident and assertive will be able to program her mind with more power than outside influence. This is why cocky and

arrogant men get all the women.

Women do not stop to consider if a man is cocky out of insecurity or if it is because he is actually deserving of possessing this attitude. Instead she will just start to adopt the perceptions he has of himself and view him in the same light.


The easiest way to get a girl to like you is to never speak negatively of yourself or

show weakness. Because if you do, you are programming her to think this way about you.


What you need to do instead, is to only speak highly of yourself and you will start to program her subconscious mind to think the same way about you.






Law 2


Attraction forms from insecurity


You must understand that a girl's attraction forms from insecurity. She is a

sensitive creature who bases her own self worth off of how men view her, but not all men. 

Only men that SHE perceives to be high value as she cares only about how worthy men treat her. 

However she will still feed her ego with the attention of suckers and weak men. 

This is why women will keep herds of men around them that they do not intend to

ever date or get sexual with just for the free attention. As attention is her favourite form of currency.

Attention to a woman is what sex is to a man. It really is that deep.


She wants the man who doesn’t want her as much as she wants him. 

This is because the majority of girls have endless options. 

They have men in their Dm's, at work, outside complimenting them 24/7.


Their egos are being stroked daily. This gives her a false sense of confidence because only her ego is being built up, not her actual sense of self. As she is only ever complimented and validated for her looks instead of her actual personality.


This is why women thirst trap on instagram and only care about their looks. They

have been led to believe that all men care about is their looks. 

Which is true to a degree but men also seek much more than looks. 

But the current state of female minds does not understand this so they only focus on their looks instead of building value in other areas.

This is why some women don't know to answer "what do you bring to the table"


What this means to us men is that her confidence is like a glass tower... throw one brick at it and it shatters. Meaning that if you hurt her ego you now become her source of validation.



You are the first man in a long time not to kiss the floor she walks on like all of

these other guys who just throw free attention at her. 

Hurting her ego DOES NOT mean you are emotionally abusing and bullying her. It just means you ain't kissing her ass.


When you don’t treat her the same way as all these other men, she subconsciously starts to view you as a superior man. 

A man who is not a simp, a man with higher value than herself. This will cause her to base her own self worth off of how you view her. You become her egos validation as you are the only man she doesn't receive free attention and validation from. 


NOTE: This ONLY works if she finds you attractive and has some level of interest in you. If she does not find you attractive and doesn't have some kind of romantic or sexual interest in you, she won't care about you being indifferent lol.


As a matter of fact, she'll be thanking her lucky stars that you aren’t chasing her.






Law 3


Beating women at their own game



Women are masters of manipulation. They were not born with physical attributes

such as strength to obtain power, so they are born with the ability to manipulate. 

Women use this innate ability to manipulate the minds of men to gain power. 

all these games you see being done:

- Replying back hours later on purpose to not seem desperate and make the person like you more 

- Being indifferent 

- Acting like you're not really that into her

- Having options on the side just incase 1 fucks up

- Being out with their friends but not posting the friend on their social media so that YOU can be overthinking and worrying if she is on a date or not.


Women are the ones who invented all these games, not men lol



All women are masters of the game but the majority of women are unconscious of their use of manipulation tactics. 

This is why she will be dramatic one second but then the next second she will have completely changed her mood towards you. 

Some women will even fake cry on the spot to suck you into her frame and get you to do what she wants. 

Some girls do this on purpose, some do it instinctively.


Women know the exact emotions to respond with to trigger emotion in you. She

will post on instagram just to fuck with your head, she will leave you on read just to

make you chase after her, she will do something wrong and than play the victim just to have power over you. If you are unaware of this and think she is just being “emotional” then you are being played. 


You must begin to analyse her behaviour from the viewpoint of

“is she trying to manipulate me into thinking or feeling this way” because 90% of the time she is.


Once you understand that she is playing mind games with you 24/7 whether

consciously or unconsciously you can start to beat her at her own game and become in control of the relationship. 


Ways you can do this is by mirroring her behaviour. 

Post an instagram story at the club or around other women to make her think you're out talking to other girls to make her jealous. 

SOMETIMES - and I mean, SOMETIMES .... Leave her on read and don't text her till she starts double texting you. 

If she does something dumb, tell her that her behaviour is making you have second thoughts about her to get her to behave correctly. 


Tell her that you aren’t  attracted to women who can't accept responsibility for

their mistakes or irresponsible actions. That you won’t commit to girls who play victim. 

She can't play games with you if you can see and point out her attacks. 

Love is war, understand this.






Law 4


She will reject you just to stroke her own ego


Sometimes a woman will like you but reject you anyway just so she can feel extra good about herself.


To reference back to law 2, women are egotistical creatures. Majority of the things they do stems from a place of emotion, not logic. 

And she will do whatever it takes to stay in this high and mighty place of entitlement. 


You must understand women will reject men they find attractive just to be able to go to their friends and say:


“look at this guy I just rejected, haha he wanted me so bad”. 



Even though all you did was walk up to her to say hi and ask for

her number. You didn't simp but her friends don't know that. 

Just like how men will lie to other men about how much money they make & how many girls they get to impress the other men.


Women will lie to their friends just to look cool as well. They want the status that

comes with being the girl who rejects every guy because she thinks she's a "10". 


Some women would rather give their ego a hit of dopamine than actually find love.


Another reason they will do this is because an ex boyfriend will have hurt her ego

so badly that she now takes out her hatred for him on other men. Projecting. 


She will start to be a bitch to all men for simply existing just because of how much animosity she has towardsmher ex. 

This is why some women are so rude when all you did was walk up and say hi.


Deep down she is hurt and hurt people have a tendency to hurt others. 


When you understand this you will stop judging yourself when a girl does this to you. There is nothing wrong with you, she is just being a bitch because her anger overrules her logic.


So don't take every rejection personally, women will reject you for reasons that have nothing to do with you. 

Understand this and keep approaching more women till you find a girl who doesn’t hate all men just because she dated one bad egg.


Majority of the choices women make are centered towards pleasing their ego as

she looks to appease her emotions more than her logic. 

You aren't ugly, she is just using you as a way to build herself up in her own mind to escape her insecurities. 

She is controlled by her emotions, so 5/10 times she will choose instant gratification over delayed gratification. 


Aka rejecting a great guy for a quick dopamine hit vs taking the time to get to know him. 

Now that you know this you can stop judging yourself as much when you

face rejection. 


You will approach women with less anxiety because now you don’t take it

so personal & think something is wrong with you whenever a girl is rude. 


Which why some girls are rude & entitled because of constant ego strokes they get from instagram likes and other men.






Law 5

Women don't usually date men better looking than them



If you've been paying attention over the last few years you'll notice a lot of ugly

ass guys are dating hot girls. 


You'll be sitting there wondering... 

"How on God's green earth did he get her. HOW?"


 The reason for this again.. Is women's egos.

You see, some women (NOT ALL) don't want love, they want the upper hand. 

They want to be the star of the show, the one in charge of the relationship. 

This is due to the increase of the disease of feminism and women desiring to be masculine. 

These women seek power instead of companionship because they have been brainwashed into thinking it will make them happy.


On the other hand, women who have been heartbroken by a very attractive guy will also do this because they believe that the nice and not as good looking guy will never cheat on or hurt her. 

She will date suckers and weak men until she realises that he does not fulfill her needs. 

Yes these men treat her very well but these relationships are BORING. 


She wonders why she can't feel the same spark she felt with the uncontrollable alpha male with the nice sucker. 

She is unconscious of her addiction to drama and chasing after the man other women want.


When the bad boys break their souls, they go to the good guys who act as a

temporary comfort while she heals from the heartbreak of an alpha. 


She will stay in a relationship with a sucker until going back to the alpha for more... repeating the same cycle over and over like a snake eating its own tail. The circle continues until she realises her own infatuation with trying to control an uncontrollable man.




In the next article, I will write Part 6 - 11 :)


- Till next time


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