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ARTICLE: 5 Reasons Why Men Should be Building Their Instagram. This Is CRITICAL For Dating & Networking!



Here are 5 reasons why Instagram is becoming CRITICAL for your Dating and business life.





1) Instagram Allows You To Dm Girls That You Would Have Had A Chance Of Not Bumping Into In Real Life.


With Instagram, you can talk to unlimited women, you don’t need to match with them or swipe for hours. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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You can talk to any woman, even celebrities and famous models (they might not reply if your profile is rubbish).⁣⁣⁣⁣


Nowadays we live in a globalised dating marketplace, women have more options than they ever had before. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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If you don’t have a powerful digital footprint in the dating scene, you are limiting yourself. ⁣⁣⁣⁣


Should men still approach 1 woman a day? Yes, absolutely


But this is not an efficient way of maximising your dating life.


The whole purpose of “speak to 1 woman a day” is to get you comfortable in interacting in conversations with women because the majority of men are absolutely terrified of the thought of approaching and having a conversation with a beautiful woman they see in public. ⁣⁣⁣⁣


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Also, If you’re busy, you don’t have the time to go to go out and approach women every day. It’s not optimal at all and the women you will see outsid are usually very average. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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Even if you approach a girl, if she likes you, she’s going to want to see your online presence and if you’re not there or you appear as low-value online, it will hinder certainly your success.



Instagram is the new Business card.

Instagram is the platform where men decide if you’re worthy of respect. And where women decide if you’re attractive.⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

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Don’t be mad at me, I didn’t make the rules.






2. Instagram Is The Gateway To Networking & Building Your Social Circle


Not only is Instagram critical for connecting with beautiful women but it’s also a crucial networking tool. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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I’ve made amazing connections with other guys and entrepreneurs through Instagram.


Crypto guys

Real estate guys

Party promoters

Chefs


Professional athletes

Personal trainers

YouTubers

Doctors



It allows you to build your social circle and network with men from your city or all over the world.⁣⁣⁣⁣

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Parties and events are for the most part organized through Instagram as well.⁣⁣⁣ It’s easier to organise a party from Instagram than it is handing out party flyers.

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And If you want to set up a table with some girls at a cool nightclub, all you gotta do is reach out to the host or promoter on Instagram and it can be sorted out in minutes.





3. If You’re An Older Guy, You Need To Adapt ASAP!


The days of Match.com and Okay Cupid are over bro.


For guys who are 35+, having Instagram lets you resonate with younger women. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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If you want to date women who are between 18 and 28, they’re pretty much all on Instagram. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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It shows that you “GET IT.” When a girl sees you with a great profile on Instagram, she will think of you as a man who simply “gets it”. ⁣⁣⁣⁣


Also, dating apps like Tinder, Bumble and all that are a massive waste of time for the most part. ⁣⁣⁣⁣You need to swipe for hours or worse you need to PAY to match and rank in the algorithm. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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You can still use dating apps if you want but just as a supplement.⁣⁣⁣⁣


You’ll get more results and higher-quality women on Instagram.⁣⁣⁣⁣






4. Instagram Is A Massive Funnel


⁣Through your profile, you can funnel women and have them follow you and your adventures. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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I’ve met countless women in real life that weren’t interested at first but then, when they started following me and seeing my stories, they became attracted over time. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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This is due to the mere exposure effect.


The more a person sees you and pays attention to you, the more they start liking you and identifying with you. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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If you have a good Instagram, you can turn girls who wana play hard, into girls who are ready to meet, just by conveying high status on the platform.⁣⁣⁣⁣






5. Instagram Is For Kings, Dating Apps Are For Peasants


Guys who aren’t on Instagram are usually not living an interesting lifestyle. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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Otherwise, they would simply post it and showcase it. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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That’s why most guys settle for average women on dating apps. Because they don’t want to put in the work.⁣⁣⁣⁣

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High-Quality Women automatically categorise you as a lower value option when you’re using dating apps. ⁣⁣⁣⁣



Think about it. ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

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Are you going to see a celebrity on Tinder? NO!⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

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Are you going to see a high-status man there? NO! ⁣⁣⁣⁣⁣

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The Hottest women don’t need dating apps, they’re on Instagram, yeah they can go on dating apps but just to get a rush of validation. ⁣⁣⁣That’s it. ⁣⁣⁣⁣


They know that guys who are the real deal all have IG. ⁣⁣⁣⁣

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To sum up, Instagram is really the best platform for online dating and networking nowadays. ⁣⁣⁣

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I hope you now understand the power of Instagram for dating and networking purposes. ⁣⁣⁣

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Don’t be mad at me, I don’t make the rules.





Till next time.


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