March Bonus Story #3 -- Audio
Added 2024-03-28 21:18:20 +0000 UTCBuckle up for this doozy of a story: I had an unexpected threesome with my best friend and my boyfriend. Am I wrong to feel extremely betrayed by them both?
What's everyone's thoughts on this? After analyzing it for a second time I'm even more sad/mad for OP..
Comments
i cant imagine having a threesome in a relationship tbh. ive had one, but i was single and it was with my single female friend and a dude we had both met, so nobody involved was committed to anyone
tay
2024-11-12 16:22:39 +0000 UTCThis sounds like sexual assault. Regardless of if she participated or not they did not ask for consent. If it’s not an enthusiastic yes it’s not a yes. There is a trauma response of flight, fight, or fawn. Which is where you freeze but still participate but your mentally in auto pilot is the best way I can describe it. I empathize with this woman of feeling probably gross and violated after such an experience especially with people she’s supposed to love and trust completely.
Brenna
2024-09-08 15:46:09 +0000 UTCI feel like throwing up, I cannot even imagine this happening to me
Inês
2024-07-30 12:38:43 +0000 UTCI genuinely feel like I want to throw up after listening to this. I want to give OP a hug so bad.
kylie_for6693
2024-06-03 05:40:37 +0000 UTCI've had a similar experience with a past bf and a good friend (15+ yrs at the time). This was about 10 years ago. He and I lived ~3 hrs from most of our friends/family. He went home for a weekend to see his fam - I didn't join. I had no idea until almost 8 months later when she blurted it out while piss drunk that he came to see her on his way home and they slept together. He was sober, she was drunk at the time. I confronted him immediately after she told me. When asked, he admitted he was never going to tell me. Silly me.. I stayed with him for another 2 ½ yrs.. why? who the hell knows. But I stopped talking to her for that same timeframe.
Cyndie
2024-04-29 00:06:06 +0000 UTCim just getting around to listening to this and when the txts came up I really wanted to cry. i cant imagine how shes feeling, still even weeks later. This is going to damage her for a long time being so young. Im 25 and just hearing this is enough to make me wanna cry for her.
Kaitlyn Wray
2024-04-16 14:28:17 +0000 UTCThis actually made me sick
Lylli Woods
2024-04-05 21:32:18 +0000 UTCFucking gross literally would have grabbed a gun lol But no my husband wouldn’t have entertain idea because me and him both agreed that wouldn’t be the best idea both of us are alittle too possessive lol
Alexis Dignam
2024-04-05 01:43:24 +0000 UTCThe way my husband would pushed my best friend away before their lips even touched 😂 It really wasn't a threesome . It really wasn't a threesome she was just there to witness.
Nia Violet
2024-04-02 13:32:43 +0000 UTCThe way I would instantly pop off and go for her hair.
Stephanie
2024-04-02 03:26:07 +0000 UTCThis literally makes me sick to my stomach…
Laura Ewing
2024-04-02 01:02:31 +0000 UTCSomething so similar happened to me in my early 20s, except we HAD discussed it as a hypothetical prior, which included setting boundaries. In the moment when it happened, they crossed all of them. I couldn't speak up and ruin the moment because I feared being known as the one who didn't know how to have fun. But I can't stand the thought of threesomes ever again... And also he left me for her years later. They're married now.
Sara Schultz
2024-03-29 22:08:18 +0000 UTCHearing this made me physically sick. I would not speak to either of them ever again holy shit….
Audrey de Szendeffy
2024-03-29 14:47:15 +0000 UTCPersonally, I wouldn’t be able to forgive the best friend after telling OPs boyfriend that she “had to see how good he was” after OP raved about how great he was in bed. That means she’s been planning this for a while and that is why this whole situation is unforgivable.
ash c
2024-03-29 03:15:00 +0000 UTCidk if you're on the app or the website, but if on the website there should be a membership tab on the tht patreon page, after clicking that you can scroll down to see the different tiers!
Queen Soup
2024-03-29 02:46:44 +0000 UTCthis is so random but i want to be at the group therapy but idk how this new patrion layout works how do i get the membership 😭
David Mathews
2024-03-29 01:45:12 +0000 UTCthis made me feel so sick for her. as someone with sexual trauma, i’ve felt that EXACT feeling before and I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. Thank you guys for your nuanced takes and the gentle way you spoke about this 💕 honestly your comments made me feel a lot better about my own past experiences.
Emily Jones
2024-03-28 22:59:24 +0000 UTCThis is disgusting, I feel for OP. I remember when I was 18, the consent is almost non existent and when your that age, exploring, you feel sometimes almost obligated to do things. I feel for her in this, because I put myself in her shoes and I would feel like I was the one in the wrong. This is traumatic, but at least she can cut them out of her life and be with a better partner and bff. She would certainly find someone that put her always first 🤞🏻
Melissa Estenoz
2024-03-28 22:42:25 +0000 UTCI have NEVER had the reaction to hearing a story that I have this one. I genuinely feel awful for OP. the update made me feel even worse. this poor girl. her reading the texts between them made me so sick for her. 😭 I wouldn't be able to move forward with either of them after what happened. I hope she can move on and work through this. she's still so young ☹️
Caitlin Miller
2024-03-28 21:58:32 +0000 UTC
