November FREE Bonus Story !!
Added 2023-11-22 00:14:41 +0000 UTCWelcome to Novembers free bonus story :) So happy to have you all here and I hope you enjoy with story with our girl alejandra. Last one we're going to get for a minute I think (but hey she could surprise us who knows).
I have so many questions you all that I'm going to do a poll after this, but wow.. I can't imagine going after one of my friends' guys let alone one they were engaged to.. THOUGHTS?!
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This is a worse situation of what happened to me and a girl who was my friend, but there is no way to win because they want to be comforted and supported by you as their friend, but also dont see how painful it is for you as the friend to watch someone go through the same thing knowingly
Zarya Dahl
2024-09-09 19:22:19 +0000 UTCAll of this! Drop shitty friends!
Kayla Labrum
2023-12-04 20:10:44 +0000 UTCFor me I think I would’ve stopped being friends the moment she was being a shitty friend. Like she knew the history there. Plus the same ring. On top of that like she warned you. You can’t help someone that doesn’t want the help.
KailaAshleigh
2023-11-26 05:54:46 +0000 UTCFrom my understanding the top comment is due to upvotes and then there are awarded comments that are highlited for being good with red boxes. and the overall vote is calculated though counting YTA, NTA, ESH in the comments. :) But I could be wrong Reddit is such a complex place hehe
Two Hot Takes
2023-11-22 06:36:54 +0000 UTCOkay this question has been floating around in my head for a while but I just joined the Patreon Fam so i’ve finally decided to ask: Are the AITA post “overall votes” calculated through the number of comments? I thought at one point there was a thing where the flairs were just the top comment? I could be totally wrong and if anyone has an answer that would be great!
Melina McElligatt
2023-11-22 02:35:31 +0000 UTCI'm for sure going to miss Ale! I'm not really sure how I would react during the phone call. I might be sympathetic but I would probably slowly stop being her friend because the fact that she started dating him in the first place would piss me off. I have stopped being friends with someone for sleeping with several of my exes. I would just realize that this friend is drama and she needs to get her shit together if she thinks its okay to date my ex who I warned her about.
Markia Justice
2023-11-22 02:14:07 +0000 UTCAlso I’ve had friendships where you try to warn them and learned pretty early on that people have to make their own mistakes to learn and don’t really want to hear you say I told you so. Two of my best friends would go mia when I did that back in the day, but it sucks because you dont want them to go through the experience.
Zoe Zinkel
2023-11-22 00:54:47 +0000 UTCI’m new to the patreon stories, but not your podcasts. I just wanted to say Alejandra is probably my favorite because a lot of times your takes sound like what I’m already thinking, lol. I hope everything goes amazing and sure gonna miss your takes on here. 😢
Zoe Zinkel
2023-11-22 00:47:08 +0000 UTCWe will miss you Alejandra!! I think it’s shitty what the friend did but I think I’d lean towards being nice because as Ale said, she’s the one intertwined with this goofy ass guy now.
Jessi
2023-11-22 00:46:19 +0000 UTCI think everyone sucks. The “I told you so” wasn’t even necessary because I think the whole reason she was calling was because she realized her mistake. But also, who calls their boyfriend’s ex to rant about how awful they are? Like yeah I get they were friends, but to drag the first girl back into that mess? I hope they look back on this with stories to tell. Also going to miss Alejandra and I can’t wait to hear about her exciting update!
Hannah Green
2023-11-22 00:44:20 +0000 UTCAwww we are going to miss her
Callie Autry
2023-11-22 00:23:53 +0000 UTCIt’s probably not an involved and mature take to say but I think there’s some exes you just don’t go there with! if they were capital L in LOVE then they are off limits! 🩷
Lynsey Neill
2023-11-22 00:21:58 +0000 UTC
