BB's dirty thoughts; Nov 7

So this week's post is going to be something a little interesting, a little steamily personal, and a little educative.

So in the Lady D comish I plan to release on Gumroad (the Highly Kinky, Hightly erotic, smuttiest smut I've literally ever shot... I love when I get to script things), she experiences an instant loss- when a woman goes from high, mighty and untouchable to wanton, slutty, post-orgasmic whore. <3 I personally love the stuff, but I wanted to add a little bit of sugar to the world of love making, specifically because I've seen too many men do this (to a very consenting pussy!) only for their female partners not to get any pleasure out of it.

Porn is healthy, porn is wonderful- and porn doesn't Need to be realistic. (Gods know some of my tastes exist in fun inhuman extremes that are hot because they have nothing to DO with reality. ;) )  BUT! It is important to know that porn ISN'T reality, and many things that work in fantasy do not work in real life, on real women's bodies.

If you are fortunate enough to be well-endowed, or even averagely-endowed, the concept of thrusting it all in out once might be very appealing to the penis wielder- but rarely is it physically pleasurable for a female partner. They may occasionally enjoy it for other reasons: emotional connection, a kinky surrender of power and a desire to serve, but strictly speaking, it is not physically pleasurable. Why? Because in a state of non or light arousal, the vaginal opening is 2.75 to 3.5 inches! Not enough room for cock!

https://www.webmd.com/women/features/vagina-size#1

https://www.grace.health/post/vagina-size-matters

Much like how the penis engorges during arousal, so does the vaginal entry engorge and elongate, allowing for deeper penetration. The vulva is an elastic organ- (I'm sure we all know here that sexual experience doesn't correlate to vaginal tightness, right? That shit's just a big ol' myth, just as the penis doesn't flatten with sexual use. "This process, loosening during arousal and tightening afterward, happens no matter how often the woman has sex." )

For myself and many women, the practice of being worked open slowly- first the head, then a bit more on next stroke, then a bit more on the next, and so forth until he finally does fully immerse himself completely... can bring stars-in-the-eyes, world-shattering orgasms. Conversely, if a dude with a average-or-larger penis shoves it all in in one go, I'm often robbed of the pleasure I could enjoy by a more gradual fulfillment. It can range from frustrating and sort of obnoxious to outright kinda painful. Many dudes have never been shown a more pleasurable way to fuck, and a woman can be too nervous to correct him, or fearful that he'll respond poorly. (A sadly valid fear, I might add.)

But no one Ever needs to be ashamed of this or have ego / feelings bruised because of something they've never learned; we WANT to bring our women pleasure, right? RIGHT! Sex should be enjoyable for everyone involved. <3

Now, it's tricky, because when enjoying visual media, I LOVE the idea of a woman being so overwhelmed with pleasure that she comes IMMEDIATELY on being stuffed with a 2 ft dick. But this is porn! Not real life. The reality of the situation just doesn't work that way; she's gotta be fully aroused first. I know personally that my entrance is TINY before I'm into it; gynecologists visits are Not fun for me, aheh.

And if you ask me... if she's into it, and you insert a little more every time, working it open and making love before you fuck, you're gonna end up with a woman begging you to bottom out, coming the second you hit the grafenberg spot.

Besides, if she's into you in that way... ask a woman what makes her come, and boy lordy are you going to get a fun show.