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Selfie Service

At this party, as the sun was setting, I offered to take bomb selfies of everyone’s ass with the view on the balcony.

Look at that cute bum!!! (She sent that pic to her girlfriend immediately.)

I am truly in my glory taking pictures of babely asses.

Magic ✨

The night started with us on the floor with glue guns making flower crowns, and ended with us in O’s bed doing some Grade A Teamwork to make sure everyone who wanted an orgasm got one.

(The Beekeeper is in the middle with the hitachi while E hits her, Mars uses clothespins and those kitty claws, and E’s toppy friend shows her what chopsticks can be good for...)

Claws

E brought a couple sets of titanium cat claws to our Summertime Badness party last weekend. Everyone had a turn trying them on, and everyone had a turn being on the receiving end of the scritchy scratches. We unanimously decided our sex cult needs a set.

(Here’s an instax photo of O testing them out on me and teasing me about my werewolf fantasies.)

Sunday morning with my head still full of flowers and rainbows I contacted the woman who makes them and ordered Ms.O a set in her...

Censorship

It made me laugh that the tumblr approval system decided these photos are just fine.

big bum solutions

As a lady with an ample booty I’ve become frustrated with women’s panties that cut across the butt cheek rather than under the butt cheek where the support is appreciated. Especially since struggling with chronic pain issues, I have no tolerance for unnecessary discomforts. (Special events are a different matter of course, I mean for every day comfort.) I decided to try out some men’s briefs when I saw that H&M had these rainbow ones. I bought a medium and I’m really pleased so fa...

Magnolia Morning

“My love seeped into her most wounded places and pushed out from the inside.” -The Unique Grief of Ending a BDSM Relationship by DaemonumX for autostraddle

A welcome cold memory ❄️

This week has been hot and humid, the summeriest summer weather, and I laughed when I came across this cold as fuck photo from last winter. I never posted it because at the time it was nothing special, but seeing it today gave me a welcome chill down my spine.

Needless

“I love seducing you,” he said. It caught me off guard. Is that what he’d done? His arms were around me, we were naked in his bed, and none of my questions had been answered. Yeah. That’s what he’d done.

How does it happen like this? Where does my resolve go? I used my words. I stood up for myself. I asked for what I needed. I bit my tongue when he asked me to. I left it in his hands. I was foolish. I was swept away.

What is the value of good sex? What is it worth to y...

Party Plans

I can’t wait for our coven date this weekend. I’ve been collecting fake flowers and greenery for the flower crowns we’re gonna make. I’ve perfected a prosecco popsicle recipe. I’ve purchased a bunch of black and white instax and I’m eager to take photos of my gloriously babely friends. We’ll have half a dozen hitachi’s on deck. And I’ve been talking with a very cute girl about doing a very cute scene, maybe having her over my knee. Summertime badness is exactly what I need. ...

(reminder)

Last year when I was going through the complexities of a break up and huge upheaval this quote (and this essay) was like life-support. Three affirmations I needed, and that’s the first thing I thought of when I heard of Ms. Morrison’s passing today.

There was so much shame wrapped up in that break up, and so much distrust in the universe. I needed wise words like this. I still do. I’m only now starting to write about it, and see the bigger picture. I saw this tweet About Toni Mor...

Morning Mantra

My best friend Joie is all about affirmations, manifesting and the power of words. I appreciate having someone like that in my life.

She says we should wake up every day a day out loud “Goodmorning (say your own name here), I love you so much and I’m going to take care of you.” I’m a big believer in this message, but I find it hard to do. I’m trying though.

Do you have a morning mantra? If so I want to hear it.

Threesomes from another era.

(I wrote this in March of 2012 after a complicated and super hot threesome with my husband and my dominant Mr.J. Re-reading it now makes me glad I wrote it down, so many of these details were lost in the drama of what came next for us. The memory is nice regardless.)

It had been 6 months since we’d last sat together in a room knowing it would end with us naked.

J brought brownies and my favourite butter toffee treats, we sipped drinks, my husband played guitar. It was c...

Languid service

What do you do with photos like this? Intimate shots your ex took in his bed. If I shut off the wounded part of my brain I can feel peaceful when I look at it, the same way I felt in that moment. Slow, soft, content.

Authenticity

I’ve been working hard these past few years to be authentic with my family members about who I am. Recently one of my cousins, who is pregnant with her first child, asked me if I would feel comfortable taking some nude maternity photos of her. I felt honoured to be asked to help create such intimate and important pictures. I also felt such a sense of pride that my honesty about my queerness and my hobbies taking saucy photos of my friends led to her feeling comfortable enough to ask me. It ...

Friday Night

Friday night and I’m finally alone. I smoke a big joint, fuss over my plants, eat an entire bakery fresh lemon loaf (to die for!) and take pictures.

Adults Only ♥️

I love a naughty art project. Needless to say I was curious when I saw the “adults only washroom”.

I fell in love immediately. Ideal!

Heart panties! Always on brand. 😇

Whimsical Art House Date

If there’s a stage... I’m gonna try it out.

I was so excited to visit this wacky collaborative art show. The whole thing was interactive and immersive, totally my cup of tea. Wanted to show you guys...

The prettiest altar.

Horology moment. <...

Sexting Advice

A twitter friend joked today about me having a Patreon tier where I help patrons with sexts. I love this idea and already do this for some of my IRL friends. Using my powers for good!

This is an open call to any of my Full Access or Penpal patrons: I am here to assist you with composing or responding to sexts or risky texts at any time! Send me a message through Patreon, include a screen shot if you like, and some context for the conversation and I’ll do my best to offer my assistanc...

Wings 💛

Out and about today, the wall revealed my true form.

(Peep that halo.)

😇

Vacation Missives

Hiking titties ❤️

Wildflower rainbow

There were only two last names in this small town cemetery.

It was so pretty right on the ocean.

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Looking ahead...

• In August patrons will get to see photos from our next coven date. ”Summertime Badness” will be an intimate girl gang gathering featuring flower crowns, hitachis and plenty of instax.
• In September I’ll be visiting my favourite people in New York. I’m taking a 4 day getaway to connect (and take pictures) with friends and lovers.
• October will have a special surprise for my birthday (ooooooh!)
• November will be the 6th Sapphic Slumber Party featuring so many ...
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Camp Nakey

Newfoundland is chilly even in the summer, which means hardly any mosquitos, which means excellent conditions for naked frolicking outdoors.

Goodmorning Evergreens

My husband captured this shot of me stretching in the morning and saying hello to the jays and evergreens.

On the Rock

The ferry ride is long, but it was a perfect day to be out on the ocean.

Mister rested and I found ways to entertain myself.

Newfoundland is fucking pretty.

And raw.

Some road trip snaps ✌️

That was the sunset our first night in PEI. The sky there feels impossibly big. Photos never do it justice.

Hobby Farm Visit (meet Abby!)

Such beauty. Such grace.

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“No one’s gonna bother you out here...”

For the past few days I’ve been channeling my childhood Anne of Green Gables dreams on Prince Edward Island. The dirt is red and the sky is vast and I got at least 4 mosquito bites while taking this shot.

The lovely woman we rented this little cottage from assured us that not only were there no neighbours, she could guarantee we wouldn’t see another soul until she came to pick up the keys at the end of the weekend. We could hear her pick up truck bumble down the road and that was i...

The thing is...

These overalls only look good without a shirt. Which means there aren’t very many occasions where this is appropriate attire.

Phew.

It was amazing. Seeing them made my heart burst with joy.

They both look older and wiser, but they’re both the same kind-hearted, funny, thoughtful and attractive people I fell in love with so many years ago. Within moments we fell into synch and picked up where we left off, this time with a lot more kids and dogs underfoot.

She did kiss me, and I hugged her so tight, I forgot how tiny she was in my arms, I crushed her in my hello and she squealed and loved it. She didn’t no...

Hotel Window Dances

This view looked over the treetops in one of my favourite old cities.

Anxious/Excited

We haven’t seen GF and BF in 9 years. I’m in the passenger seat nervously and excitedly trying to keep my hands busy. She’s texting me too much as we approach, checking this detail and that, making up for the quiet years between us where our only contact was the annual New Years card I would send her with photos.

I consider the changes in the past 9 years, my wrinkles, my 10 extra pounds, my experience, my growth, my achievements, my patience worn thin. I know they’ve changed t...