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Video of me dancing

When we shot the video Relationtips, I incorporated a dance scene. I put on the Pussycat Dolls' song Buttons and danced sexy and silly. It was one of the first videos I made with the new director Maia and because we didn't know each other well, I wasn't familiar with her sense of humor. I danced and danced thinking she'd eventually let me know when she had enough footage for the shot. Maia said nothing. She just let me dance, have fun, let loose, entertain her, and get back to why I love my job ...

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Because of you!

I believe that regardless of your personal interest in BDSM, you support us sexplaining the diversity of sexuality. That means a lot to me. It means that topics like this one can be addressed openly and comprehensively. 

THANK YOU

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We got it!

This is a link to the livestream. I'll start in a minute or so. 

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oh boy

Since the last time I've livestreamed, YT has made lots of changes and now there's a whole program I have to download. I'm working on this and hope to be live with you in the next hour. If not, we'll work on other options. Talk to you soon

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Livestream


Hi! I'm going to be hosting a livestream on Monday January 5th at 1:30 MTZ for an hour or so. I'll post a link on Monday if you want to participate.

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Want to help?

I'm trying to write a script about the top ten boner donors and have some good leads but not a complete list. Do you know of any people (or other animals, I suppose) who've given their penises to art or science?

So far I have 1. the cadavers Da Vinci worked with 2. the penis at the Icelandic Phallological Museum 3. Rasputin 4. Jimi Hendrix. Then a handful of people who donated their penises as medical transplants. 

Thanks in advance for the help and ideas! 

Warmly, <...

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Heated comments

It's been awhile since the comments section of a Sexplanations' video were heated. I'd love to know your thoughts. 

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Personal story time

In the words of my mother's birthday card to me "sometimes we don't get what we want because we deserve so much more."



Over ten years ago I started dating this really cool guy - a casual, one day at a time kind of thing. We weren't really compatible but we enjoyed each other's company and adapted well to one another's differences. He worked as an attachment counselor in our local group homes. I fostered kiddos with severe attachment disorders. He could lift heavy things. ...

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Topic Poll - which topics would you like me to cover next?

I'm working on a letter to you all about where I've been and what I'm processing. Hopefully to provide a coherent explanation for why you're getting a ballot after all these months!?! 

In the meantime let's do this! I'm so curious about your current interests and I could use help choosing a direction for the next month or so. 

Here's what I can tell you so there's some context to your decision making process. 

11/22 is a video interview with Ash Hardell regar...

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Thinking smart

It would be awesome to hear your thoughts on this video and the sponsor. Please let me know what your thoughts are. 

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Domain names

Hi!

Just wondering which domain names you think I should choose? I really like the idea of aboutsexuality.com as an all access site for everything related to sexuality in addition to Dr. Doe and Sexplanations stuff. I also like the idea of having a site for Dr. Doe. Sexplanations.com is available and I think especially because there might be a book someday I should buy it but I wanted to get your thoughts first. Which sites should I get/keep?

Thanks!

Lindsey

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New video!

I'm so excited about this! We made it about four weeks ago and I've been really curious what your thoughts will be on it. 

My intention was to do a livestream tonight to discuss the video and other things but because we're behind schedule on posting the episode and I'm doing respite for a six year old, I will need to postpone. Soon though, it's on my priority list. 

Curious, 

Lindsey

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Sexplanations Updates

I, Lindsey Doe, just posted a job listing for a creative business assistant. Administrative wizards are encouraged to apply. Here is a link to the description: https://missoula.craigslist.org/ofc/d/creative-business-assistant/6283792437.html

The reason I'm hiring is because there's a lot to accomplish and I need help. My mission is to sex edutain the universe. That means go...

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Best time for a livestream?

What would be the best time for me to host a scheduled livestream? You can choose multiple options.

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Phew

I meant to write a post about this last week when we shot the video. Basically, a couple of months ago Matt and I were gathering up the camera equipment at the end of a shoot and we got to talking about simpler videos, ones with not so much research involved, that could be recorded without a script, just me talking to the camera. The sex swing was on the back of the door and I gestured to it suggesting 'how to use a sex swing' as a topic. He was excited and so we put idea on the schedule. <...

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What should we prioritize?

Hey Awesome Sexpla(i)nauts! I'd love your input on some things....

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Keepin' busy

I hope that you've seen all the recent episodes of Sexplanations and that you've heard the last six podcasts but I totally get it if you haven't. There's a lot going on. 

Not so much that there isn't time for me to check-in and express my gratitude toward you all. We've got a lot of amazing things lined up and that is entirely possible because you support what we're about. 

I really hope I don't let you down and this continues to be the kind of great that I'm aiming for! <...

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Episode 2 of the Sexplanations Podcast

we're about to go live

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Sexplanations, the Podcast LIVE at this link

Give it a few minutes but we're about to go live on DOEEYES with the first episode of Sexplanations Podcast.

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Guess what I finally get to share!

Back in April some of you got to vote for an upcoming topic. We did two of them on the list but now you'll get your first pick!! Today, in maybe 10 minutes, there will be a video about the power of touch in which lucky me gets a massage to show you some types of touches while citing a bunch of research about its benefits. I'd love to know what you think of it. 

Curious, 

Lindsey

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Sexplanations, the Podcast

Well, you asked for it and I consent to give it to you: Sexplanations, the Podcast or what I will probably call SexPod to distinguish the videos from aural Sexplanations. 

Thank you all for helping me stick with strong branding and for going along with me on this journey! Today I'm particularly scared about how the show and my time and relationships will go, and knowing you're out there cheering me on is a big deal! 

Anyway, the first two episodes of the podcast will be recorde...

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Podcast name?

I'd love your help deciding on a name for the podcast. Please feel free to choose as many options as you like or just your favorite. And if you have a better idea than those listed I'd love to hear it. 

Thanks, 

Lindsey

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The more I learn the more I wonder.


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Updates

If you follow me on Twitter you may have seen/read that my computer, a Mac Book Air 11" went and died. Something about the motherboard and the LED... can't be repaired or at least not for much less than what it would cost to get a new computer. So I shopped a lot this week and got the opinions of people I trust. Now I'm writing to you from a new Mac Book that's still small enough to fit in my purse for speaking engagements and won't over heat on my lap during the many hours I'm researching and w...

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Special Episode of Sexplanations

A few weeks ago I sent a poll out regarding video ideas to celebrate our four years of doing Sexplanations. A KY slip n' slide was the top vote. 

I've been working on location and materials and getting the Complexly staff to join in but pieces aren't coming together. Not to mention, just yesterday Missoula got a bunch of snow so it's very much not bathing suit weather. We're going to have to change directions. 

Last night I was watching West Wing, which I'm totally into, and I ...

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Needed: Your Sweatshirt Size

I'm getting together your Let's Get Physical packages and want to include a sweatshirt for you or someone you'd like to regift it to. Please let me know which size you'd like me to send you and tell me if there's been any changes to your address.

NOTE: I think the sizes run on the small side so I'd size up. I, for example, am 5'4" 115lbs but I get a size medium. 

Thanks, 

Lindsey

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Dating 101

It's missing the online dating experience, that's a story for later. I hope that you enjoy what's here and continue to stay curious. 

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Please complete this short survey.

There are 1,442 of you and each of your voices matters to us. 

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I'd love to know what you think about this video.


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Did it.

This episode was not sponsored by a brand or a company. It was entirely funded by you. You gave me the space to share with our community the story of one person's sex life and hopefully in doing so gave some context to the education that I try to impart. 

Thank you, dear Sexpla(i)nauts, thank you from the bottom of my heart. 

~Lindsey

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