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[F4A] When You Look at Me Like That..[NSFW]

I don't know how you do that...
All with just one look...

When you look at me like that... all I can think about is how badly I need to feel some part of you inside me.

Inclusivity notes:
No mentioned of listener gender or genitals

Nicknames used for listener:
Babe, Baby, Love

Sound effects from:
Freesound.org

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[SFW Exclusive] Sleep Safely in My Arms [End of Day Anxiety] [Comfort] [Falling Asleep in My Arms]

Nuzzle into me... I'll hold you nice and close while you sleep.

Nuzzle into me... I'll hold you nice and close while you sleep.


Headphones recommended ^^ Lots of whispers and breathing.

Sounds from:
Freesound.org

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[F4TM][Mildly NSFW] Grown up Cuddles [Romantic][Intimate][Relaxing]

Do you think… we could spend every day like this? Laying here… Talking… watching romantic movies.. Making love until we fall asleep… and start all over again..   

I struggled with if I should actually label this as NSFW.  It is much more cuddly than erotic. Still, let's err on the side of caution ^^     

Inclusivity notes:  
Describes listener as man
Contains no mentions of gentials.    
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[F4TF][Genitals Mentioned][Mildly NSFW] Grown up Cuddles [Romantic][Intimate][Relaxing]

Do you think… we could spend every day like this? Laying here… Talking… watching romantic movies.. Making love until we fall asleep… and start all over again..   I struggled with if I should actually label this as NSFW.
It is much more cuddly than erotic. Still, let's err on the side of caution since penetration is involved ^^   
   
Inclusivity notes:   

Describes listener as woman

No specific words ...

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[F4F][F4TF][Mildly NSFW] Grown up Cuddles [Romantic][Intimate][Relaxing]

Do you think… we could spend every day like this? Laying here… Talking… watching romantic movies.. Making love until we fall asleep… and start all over again..   I struggled with if I should actually label this as NSFW.

It is much more cuddly than erotic. Still, let's err on the side of caution ^^   

Inclusivity notes:   

Describes listener as woman
No description of genitals

Nicknames used:...

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[F4M][Mildly NSFW] Grown up Cuddles [Romantic][Intimate][Relaxing]

Do you think… we could spend every day like this? Laying here… Talking… watching romantic movies.. Making love until we fall asleep… and start all over again..   I struggled with if I should actually label this as NSFW. It is much more cuddly than erotic. Still, let's err on the side of caution ^^   

Inclusivity notes:

Describes listener as man
No specific words used (i.e penis, cock etc) to describe genitals but there is descripti...

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[F4A][Mildly NSFW] Grown up Cuddles [Romantic][Intimate][Relaxing]

Do you think… we could spend every day like this? Laying here… Talking… watching romantic movies.. Making love until we fall asleep… and start all over again..  

I struggled with if I should actually label this as NSFW.  It is much more cuddly than erotic. Still, let's err on the side of caution ^^  


Inclusivity notes:
Contains no mentions of either pronouns or gentials.  

Nicknames used:
Babe, Baby...

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The Tagging NSFW Situation- Help!

Soo, I need your input again.  I have two suggested solutions for 'solving' the NSFW tagging. Doing more versions and naming them based on what I might think will be suited for which listener is what I think will make the most sense (let me know if you disagree!!)  
Note that in some cases (not all), there might not be an actual difference in the audio itself.
It might be the same as another version and I've just made sure that it is suitable even for another audience and ther...

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Happy New Year!

Happy, Happy soon to be New Year everybody!



I hope you know how grateful I am for each and everyone of you. You've given me so much love and support and honestly, a thank you doesn't seem like enough sometimes.


You are amazing <3


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Behind the Scenes; Let's Press Record!

Let's do it! "Behind the Scenes" part two where we actually press record.
I challenged myself to not edit this video (besides blurring out some personal information), which means that it includes a few mess ups. But hey, don't we all love bloopers?

Atleast I didn't break anything or bump the mic (too much), I call that success :)

Anyway; enjoy ^^

Link:
2022-12-30 15:21:22 +0000 UTC View Post

Behind the Scenes; Let's Write a Script!


Today I thought we could do something different where I bring you "behind the scenes" if you will to have a look at how a request from one of the subscribers is turned into a script for an audio.     


Maybe some of you are interested in making your own content or just curious about the process. If neither ehm... Well, maybe this video isn't for you and I hope you enjoy the next one ^^  


Video link:
2022-12-28 14:14:46 +0000 UTC View Post

[F4*]Don't worry, I'll Take Care of You [TW**] [First time Alternative NSFW Version]

First times can be scary, awkward and emotional.  
But don't worry, I'll take care of you.    

Headphones recommended!

This is the alternative version to the 'Not Ready Yet' audio which has quite a different ending. Note that since it is an alternative version, the begining (Can I still call it that if it is litterly over 40 min? lol) is the same as the above mentioned audio.

The new edition starts at ~ 41 min    &nbs...

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[F4*]Don't worry, I'll Take Care of You [TW**] [First time Alternative NSFW Version]

First times can be scary, awkward and emotional.
But don't worry, I'll take care of you.  

Headphones recommended!

This is the alternative version to the 'Not Ready Yet' audio which has quite a different ending. Note that since it is an alternative version, the begining (Can I still call it that if it is litterly over 40 min? lol) is the same as the above mentioned audio.

The new edition starts at ~ 41 min  


*Inclusivity no...

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[F4A]Don't worry, I'll Take Care of You [TW*][First time Alternative NSFW Version]

First times can be scary, awkward and emotional.
But don't worry, I'll take care of you.

Headphones recommended!

This is the alternative version to the 'Not Ready Yet' audio which has quite a different ending.
Note that since it is an alternative version, the begining (Can I still call it that if it is litterly over 40 min? lol) is the same as the above mentioned audio.
The new edition starts at ~ 41 min

Inclusivity notes:
The...

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[SFW] Glögg and Cuddles [Extended version][F4A]

It is our first Christmas together and there is something about this holiday that always makes me extra cuddly.

Good thing I have my cuddlebun right here!

Come and get cozy.

This is the extended version of the YouTube audio. Hope you enjoy!
p.s. The ending is meant to be rather whispery/quiet so headphones recommended ^^

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Need your input!

Hi beautiful people,

Hope you’re having a great weekend!

I’m kind of spamming you lately, sorry ^^  But I do need your input again.
I genuinely hope that I’m not offending anyone by asking, I’m trying to do the opposite and ensure that I don't do that.

Inclusivity is extremely important to me and in my opinion, there is very little erotica/NSFW content out there for anyone that doesn’t identify as ‘simply’ cis-male or cis-female. That needs to change...

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[F4A][Mildly NSFW]Not Ready Yet [First Time] [Virgin Listener] [TW*]

We've spent the day decorating for Christmas. At the end of the day, we just get to sit and admire the surrondings. All the lights.. the snow falling down outside. It is perhaps the perfect romantic setting for being a bit more intimate.. But as the title hints of, you didn't feel ready. And that is ok. It is always ok to say no and to change a yes to a no. Because your comfort and trust in me matters more.
We'll wait.

Highly recommened headphones for this one, quite a bit o...

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Your thoughts on something different

Hi beautiful people!

I wanted to get your opinion on an idea that I've had in my head for quite some time.
I think most of us listen to ASMR to find some kind of comfort. Maybe for loneliness, depression, anxiety or similar struggles with our mental health.
One thing that I think helps (atleast for me) is to listen to others stories. Hearing them speak about their struggles. How it began, what has worked or hasn't worked.
The purpose would be to show that you're never alone....

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[SFW] Reminders [F4A]

We all need a reminder sometimes. To be reminded that we're loved, important och worthy just as we are.
Let me do that for you today.


Ths audio contains affirmations and is looped. The idea is that you can have it in the background, listen before you go to sleep or whenever you need some extra love and kind words. Whenever you need to be reminded that you matter.

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[F4A] Doing skincare together [SFW]

A more suiting title might be: enjoy a hoarse, somewhat grumpy me putting a face mask on you while rambling too much and then we go to sleep. But that was too long lol.

On a more serious note, I hope you enjoy this little getting ready for bed audio and that it can serve as a bit of a reminder to do some self care today :)



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Removing content

Hi beautiful people,


So, this is a very weird post to make.
I'm sorry to say that I will be removing a lot of the NSFW audios on here. Don't panic, I'm not closing down.

It is a long story that I won't go into details about so forgive me for being a bit cryptic. It is really important to me that the writers that I work with share some of the same values as me. If they don't (which isn't necessarily bad or makes them bad people, I want to make that very, very clear) I find...

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The results!

The result from the poll is in and almost everyone that voted wanted the content here to be NSFW aswell as Exclusive only SFW.


Thank you for voting and letting me know what you like to see here!

I've gotten som great suggestions from you for audio ideas (sfw and nsfw) as well as some scripts which I'm very excited to work with.
As always, feel free to keep them comming! If you don't want to leave a public comment, you can always message me here.

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[SFW] Take Time for Yourself [Morning Phone Call] [F4A]

It is great to be productive but don't forget to take care of yourself too.  <3  




p.s. I'm letting the pull on content stay up a bit longer but you guy seem to pretty much all agree that you (which makes my job easy :) ) prefer the NSFW in combination with exclusive SFW instead of early access so lkely this will be the last early access SFW here.

Sounds from: Freesound.org

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[F4F/F4TF*] Spoiling My Good Girl [NSFW]

My lovely ladies, you didn't get a specific audio the last time I posted so I decided to make it up to you.


How about we take a nice, relaxing bath... and I wash every inch of that beautiful body of yours?


Some TW notes:
Fdom/Fsub (listener) vibe. Heavy praise and use of 'good girl'.

*Inclusivity tones:
No mentions of genitals but refering to listener as a woman.

Nicknames used:
Good girl (heavy us...

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Exclusive or Early Access SFW? Just NSFW?

Hi Beautiful people,
Hope You're all having a good start to your weekend.
I want to get your input on the focus of the content here on Patreon.

My current thoughts are to make the audios on Patreon ONLY NSFW and exclusive SFW, meaning that there would be no early access to the content on Youtube. It would mean less posts from here but also a bit more focused direction and less spams in your email :)

Is this a good idea, or no?

Please don't be afraid that you're goin...

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[F4A] The Demons in Our Head... [TW*]

We all have them. Those little voices inside our head. The voices that keeps telling us that we're not good enough. Not trying hard enough. Failing.
"Loser" they say. Why are you not smarter? Thinner? More muscular?

Telling them to stop is difficult. Getting them to stop even more so.
I can assure you that if I could I would tell them to leave you the fuck alone.
They're wrong about you.
There is nothing wrong with you.
You're smart, sweet, funny, strong and SO lovable....

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[F4A] Falling asleep together

I know you've been stressing out lately.
Let me help you relax. Maybe a massage would help?
Cuddles and kisses might help too.

Slight TW: Discussions of abandonment and seperation anxiety.

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ASMR| A Little Story Before Bedtime [The Selfish Giant] [Rain] [Sleepaid]

One of my favorite little stories by Oscar Wilde.

It is sad and beautiful at the same time.



Hope you enjoy part six of the little stories before bedtime series.

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You're supposed to be in bed!

What were you thinking, babe? You're sick and supposed to be resting...
Let's get you in bed... now.

Sounds from:
Freesound.org

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[F4M*] You're Just Impossible to Resist...[NSFW]

I think that beautiful little sigh.. And you moving my hand down... means that you're not completely opposed to the idea of a little morning fun before I leave for work...

And YOU... happen to also be my favorite breakfast...

Some TW notes:

There is a slight FDOM vibe to ALL versions of this audio. There is no extreme control, no restrain, no choking and no degrading words used. All acts are consentual. But if the Dom/Sub is not your thing at all; this might...

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