Hey! This month, in collaboration with Da’Shaun Harrison I’ll be focusing the Q&A on trauma and the body. Please drop your questions below — I’m answering all questions related to this topic. If you have other questions around body image, anti-fatness, etc. I’m happy to answer those as well!
2020-03-18 01:44:36 +0000 UTC View Post
anti-fatness shows up in a variety of ways. in the fashion world, through the medical industry, through the diet industrial complex and gym culture, through the media and so much more. to gym-bodied and otherwise thin people, this term often rings hollow. for fat folks, however, even if we don’t necessarily have a fat politic, we know that the way in which the world responds to our bodies looks vastly different from how the world responds to those smaller than us.
in this way, one of ...
2020-03-16 23:09:32 +0000 UTC View Post
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2020-03-04 17:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post
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2020-03-03 17:48:22 +0000 UTC View Post
Click this link to access the video: https://bit.ly/3cos8XT
I am so excited to collaborate with Da'Shaun Harrison (they/them) for the entire month of March to give you hella content around fatphobia, body image, etc. Da'Shaun is a nonbinary abolitionist and organizer who does TONS of brilliant work around race, sexualiy, gender (dis)abilities, fatness and more.
For March's educational video th...
2020-03-02 20:10:14 +0000 UTC View Post
Why would a nigga fly me out and put me up in a hotel WHERE HIS WHOLE TEAM IS STAYING???? This is a stressful HOE TALES because men are SKRESS, but, what's new???
Link: https://bit.ly/2T8xG1h
xoxo
2020-02-29 22:02:21 +0000 UTC View Post
Cisheteornormativity and white supremacy have ruined relationships.
The cookie cutter, “2 kids and a dog” thing is white people shit. It’s cishet, white people shit. The gender roles. The performing. The expectations and rules. The monogamy as the highest, most virtuous form of love; the knight sweeping a damsel in distress off of her feet is CISHET WHITE PEOPLE SHIT. And we, assuming you are not a cishet white person, have bought into it (and actually, let me pu...
2020-02-27 19:09:09 +0000 UTC View PostHere are the questions I answered this month!
How does being in the sex industry affect your dating life?
How do I communicate with a guy my standards when it comes to money? I don't want to be called old-fashioned, sexist, gold-digger etc.
I’m 27 and never had sex before. I want to hire a male escort to ensure I have a good first experience - do you have any safe resources I can refer to as I start my search?
How can you feel gro...
2020-02-24 20:36:56 +0000 UTC View Post
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2020-02-14 16:59:21 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey! Reply with questions for Feb.'s #AskRaquelSavage q&a - you can ask me anything you want and I'll choose 3-5 questions to answer!
Answers will be posted in audio format next week on Third Base and up.
xoxo
2020-02-13 16:50:34 +0000 UTC View Post
Ok, so I'm late as fuck with the Jan bonus skjijksisjksjssis I apologize, hold me accountable! LMAO But here it is, a get ready with me vid pre-yacht day. Enjoy lol
Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/19okfvafk5wqdmj/Get%20Ready%20With%20Me.mp4?dl=0
xoxo
2020-02-12 23:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
I did things a little different this month - I ripped a page out of my diary to show yall how I process in real time. This isn't necessarily a linear "piece," this is literally me working things out with myself mid-trigger, to process. Hope this gives yall some insight on how to a) better tolerate your least favorite feelings and b) take some time to process before reacting.
Dea...
2020-02-11 00:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
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I know yall have been patiently waiting for this recording so, here you go! January's live stream features @MissBNasty - we spoke about all the basics of Onlyfans. Starting from scratch, cornering your market, producing content, marketing, maximizing earnings, etc. We also discussed options for anonymity for folks who may want to do OF on the low and so much more.
We had a gr...
2020-02-07 17:40:07 +0000 UTC View Post
For February I wanted to explore some shit I've been seeing on the TL re: the jokes about WW3. This context is pretty specific however, everything I discuss can be applied more broadly to all trauma/stress responses, coping, etc.
Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/hdthjatcz3cl1s0/Trauma%20%26%20Stress%20Responses.mp4?dl=0
xoxo
2020-01-29 22:18:28 +0000 UTC View PostWhat do you want to know about ethical non-monogamy, toxic monogamy culture, managing jealousy, etc.? Questions? Topics?
2020-01-27 21:14:29 +0000 UTC View Post
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2020-01-23 00:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostDo yall actually use the tags to search content on here? If yes, would it help if I added tags to posts that also include the topic being discussed?
For example, I tag every educational video "video" but I could also tag "grounding techniques" "abortion" etc. (whatever the topic of the actual content is). I'm asking b/c I keep hearing people say it's difficult to find shit on here and I'll add this feature but yall gotta actually use it or else I'm not doing it LMFAO 2020-01-22 04:41:36 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey lovelies! Here are the questions I covered this month!
1. Tips for dating/hooking up as a queer woman. Cis men are so easy but approaching everyone else seems daunting!
2. I notice that I "rush" myself to get to orgasm. Have you ever felt that and do you have any suggestions on how to combat it?
3. How do you work on overcoming baggage from a previous relationship and the feeling of "forever alone?"
4. What are some tools that a person can use to work through...
2020-01-20 19:48:05 +0000 UTC View Post
A human centipede of ass eating??? YES MA'AM. (I'm realizing I have lots of orgy stories skjijksijsks)
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2020-01-18 00:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
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2020-01-17 20:01:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Yerr! Reply with questions for January's #AskRaquelSavage q&a - you can ask me anything you want and I'll choose 3-5 questions to answer!
Answers will be posted in audio format next week on Third Base and up.
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2020-01-16 23:44:47 +0000 UTC View Post
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2020-01-14 18:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Last night I got a facetime call from a regular. I just so happened to be on the phone with my mom.
“T is calling…”
“Will you answer it?”
“Selling pussy is like an addiction,” I told her.
If I answered this call, then I’ve answered a call. And if I’ve answered a call then I might as well answer the next one. Or call back the ones I’ve ignored over the past week. Or...
2020-01-14 00:45:55 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's the recording for December's live stream featuring Professor Gaia! We briefly discussed body dysmorphia; how to unpack fatphobia and navigate social media; and some more shit. And we also talked about building confidence and self-love. I really appreciate everyone who tuned into this and was willing to be vulnerable with us. This was definitely one of my favorite live streams!
Make sure to follow and support Professor Gaia:
Instagram: @gaiagraphy101 <...
2020-01-04 21:20:44 +0000 UTC View Post
Happy New Year, fuckers! Let's start this motherfucker off right by learning some nice, calming grounding techniques that get us embodied and relaxed! There are so many to choose from and the perfect way to help with stress and anxiety, among other things. In this vid I also share some of my fave grounding tips :)
Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/hh2ytmf...
2019-12-30 20:57:26 +0000 UTC View Post
Everybody loves a gay cheerleader. High school was ...wild
Link: https://www.dropbox.com/s/3nj90n28f1k96w2/DECEMBER%20HOE%20TALES.mp4?dl=0
xoxo
2019-12-28 02:24:44 +0000 UTC View PostThis month I answered these submission questions:
1. In your opinion, if you're with someone that's not well-endowed, what are the best positions for a woman to reach orgasm vaginally?
2. TW: self-harm. Not sure if you’ve spoken about this before but maybe self-harm as a coping mechanism or shame as an emotion and how to cope with it.
And since there were only 2 questions, I also expanded on a recent tweet of mine about creating space for “no’s” to exist.
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2019-12-23 16:40:26 +0000 UTC View Post