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The Inescapable

There is a type of rope bottom called an “eel” … a person that likes to be tied up, but also really likes to try to escape.  And believe it or knot, many common ties are actually quite escapable.  Another believe it or not:  Most eels are quietly disappointed when they are able to escape.  They test their bonds to prove to themselves that they are well and truly caught, and when they are … well … therein lays their deepest pleasure.  Not all though, some are...

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New tutorials to vote for!

This month we released the Curves Ahead TK, to join the Curves Ahead Drum Harness, thus giving you a few more options where you need to distribute pressure across a wider area

Next up is "The Inescapable", but I have added 4 new tutorial ideas, s...

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The 'Curves Ahead' TK!

This variation on the Takate Kote or Gote Shibari is great for people who, for whatever reason, would prefer a wider bands around the arms.  It prevents those extra cords from getting all bunched up together! When you make the strap(s) wider, you spread the force across a more area and make the harness more comfortable for floor bondage or suspension.

Check out the  'Curves Ahead' TK!

I hav...

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Drum Harnesses!

Yes, Two!

I have posted an updated version of the classic Drum Harness and have added the "Curves Ahead" Drum Harness as well! 

These are attention-getting waist harnesses features a zig-zag pattern that helps distribute pressure across a greater area.  They wonderfully accentuate the hips--if your part...

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New Tutorial: BTS - Angelic Suffering

This tutorial is in the BTS ("Behind the Scene") section, and this one features nudity, which is not everyone's thing, so I didn't include a picture with this post.

One of our members wrote me this week suggesting that more material showing how the various ties, even simple ones could be used to have a great scene.  It was a perfect question!  The core tutorials are all about the technique of just doing that...

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New Tutorial: Tiva Hishi

Hi Everyone!

The highly anticipated Tiva Hishi has been released!

This gorgeous chest harness also captures the hands. 

Thanks, Everyone!  Enjoy!

- Lazarus

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An adjustable forced-O belt & more!

Hi Everyone!,

I have just released three more tutorials that cover some simple yet fun ideas!

Tutorials ...by topic, difficulty, or unlock cost

The vote on simplifying went down to keeping things as they, but with lots of great suggestions on increasing the transparency.  So I have kept things generally the same, but have added a label and a new way to filter your content.  

Now, when you go to the "Learn Rope Bondage" dropdown, you will see some new options:

Tutorials
...by Topic

2019-01-31 17:10:51 +0000 UTC View Post

Should I simplify?

Over the past few months, I have had a few people send me messages or quite Patreon because they find the fee structure to be too complex.  Should I simplify?

I currently have things set up so that:

  • All Core Knowledge and Easy tutorials are free
  • Some Intermediate are free, but most of them are unlocked at the $3 level
  • Some Advanced are unlocked at $3, and all of them are unlocked at $5 

My theory was that this would allow people at one...

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The January Snowball Effect

O...M...G...

The polar vortex has split and the frozen North has become more frozen, so of course(!) my plans for this month sort of "snowballed" on me.

My original plan for this month was to release tutorials on the Spiral Futomomo and the 3TK.  ...But when I started the 3TK, I realized that I really needed to update the 2TK as well.  So, I got that done too.  ...Then I realized that some people might like to have a really close-up tutorial on X Frictions, Square F...

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December & 2018 Wrap-up

While TheDuchy has been around since 2000, 2018 was the first year we have made a go of actively building a community and gathering your support for the project.  And what a year it has been!  Thousands of people from across the world have joined us to learn and to guide how TheDuchy has grown.  As I have said so many times, (and will say many times in the future), I am deeply grateful to every one of you.

So let's have a few more things to wrap up 2018!

  • Here ...

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New ways to wrap your Christmas/holiday present!

Hi All,

A Peach Tie!  A Breast Harness!  A Futomomo!  And a Valkyrie over a battlefield!

5 new tutorials and Behind-the-Scene posts to get your juices flowing!

Busy month! What's next?

Hi Everyone!

It has been a really fun month full of new things!

The Loop-Chain Harness / Evening Dress / etc...

Hello to all you wonderful people!

For those of you that celebrate Thanksgiving, I wish you the best of times with the Holiday.  For those of you that do not, I wish you the best, too!

We have a new tutorial, and this one lets you do at least 4 different things!

  • Two different harness
  • Thigh-highs
  • An Evening Dress

This was submitted by one of our members as part of our new Behin...

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#ThankYouPatrons

Hi Everyone!

I want to thank each of you that have offered me your support over the past year.  You have contributed your money, your ideas, your enthusiasm, and have help spread the word.  TheDuchy has grow far more this year than I anticipated and it is all because of you.

Thank you.  I deeply appreciate what you have done.  

Your support has meant I am able to spend more time building these tutorials and because you are helping shape what I work on next, thos...

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Which Tutorial Next?

Several of our members have submitted suggestions for the next tutoral?  I will be doing all of these, but you get to pick the order!  Which do you want to see first?

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New Feature! [[Stealth Release]]

Greetings, Gentles All!

I am working up a new feature for TheDuchy and you get to guide how it works!  For the next week, this is available only to you!

The new feature is called "Behind the Scene: (How did they tie that?)

In it, I will deconstruct a tie that one of our members has sent in.  I will break down how the tie was done and provide links to the tutorials that will give you step-by-step ...

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Armbinding + Hishi Karada

Hello, you wonderful Kinksters!

I have just released three new tutorials!

Suspensions are up!

We have just added three more tutorials:

Hangers & Frictions

Hi All,

We are closing in on suspensions!  I have just released two new tutorials:

Hangers are methods to quickly attach a suspension support line to a harness.  This method works for attaching to any reasonable number of points at the same time.  I show how to attach to a single point, 2 pts and 3 pts!

Frictions are me...

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Chair Ties - TheDuchy

Two new tutorials hot off the presses!  Chair Ties!

Tying someone to a folding chair 

Tying someone to an armless kitchen chair 

Several of you have written me asking for these so enjoy!  

(I will add ones for chairs with arms some other time, but these should give you enough to do that as w...

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Relaying some info from Patreon

Hi All,

Apparently Patreon is changing their payment gateway provider for sites that have adult content like TheDuchy.  They are switching to a provider in the UK instead of in the U.S., which may impact payments this month, depending on the policies of your bank.  

Patreon sent this out in case you see anything strange:

If your patrons are having any trouble, here’s what they can do:

  1. If their bank suspects that the Patreon payment is fraudu...

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Message Frequency

How often should TheDuchy send you messages?

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August from TheDuchy

Greetings and salutations!

The month of August was insanely busy all around.  We released 5 new tutorials: 

Surveys, Strap-ons and Appearances

Survey and a slight shift in plans

OK, I put out a poll a week ago and the results a pretty clear:  87% of those that voted would like me to balance my release schedule, releasing non-suspension tutorials as well as suspension tutorials.   So we will shift plans to make that move!  My goal for the next while will be to release one suspension-related tutorial and one non-suspension tutorial each month until we get through the suspension material.  Thank...

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Focus for TheDuchy.com

After posting yesterday's update, I wanted to confirm something with you all.  I know there is a lot of interest in the Suspension topic, but I get requests for tutorials on lots of other topics, too.  So my question is this:

Over the next few months, should TheDuchy:

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Shinju, Suspension Shinju, Evaluating a Hard Point

O...M...Goodness.

It's been a heck a month.  I began the Odyssey of building out material on suspensions and it snowballed.  Every time I think through and research a topic, a couple more topics seem to pop up--like an intellectual hydra.

So the list of articles and tutorials that I think need to be built to handle the topic of suspension has been growing.  You can keep tabs on my current thoughts and plans in the "Plans" section of:

2018-08-04 23:44:03 +0000 UTC View Post

Testing downloadable PDF versions

Hi All,

Many people have asked if I can provide a version of the tutorials that can be downloaded for offline viewing or printing.

I have created a few PDFs of what I have in mind.  

If this is a feature you are interested in, I invite you to go check them out and let me know what you think!

Thanks!

Lazarus

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New Tutorial - The Suspension Series Begins!

In this message:

  • Let the Summer of Suspension Begin!   
  • Speaking of suspending...  suspending voting for the summer
  • Possible new feature: Printing and off-line viewing
  • Shifting to monthly billing instead of by-post


Let the Summer of Suspension Begin!  

I have published a new tutorial, the first in a series I have planned for the summer:    2018-07-02 22:40:48 +0000 UTC View Post

Updated Hojo Instructions

Hi All!

I just updated the instruction for the real version of Hojojitsu Ittatsu-ryu and instruction for create a rope designed for Hojo.

This is a technique that can have your partner tied up and helpless in -- no joke -- 60 seconds or less.

The updated instructions make it *much* more clear how to do the Hojo tie.  Which hand to use for which part, etc.  I will get a video up on this...

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