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The following is the joining information for the upcoming class on "Conflict Resolution in Power Exchange Relationships". Please note that the time listed below is in IST (Indian Standard Time), you can check this page for the corresponding local time. If you have sent me your e-mail address, I will add you to the meeting so it reflects on your calendar. If you haven't sent it, you can message me he...
2025-06-06 04:07:51 +0000 UTC
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Note: I just started working on a new book. It's not a kink/sex book. It's a book I have pitched to my agent and they love the idea, so I will not be posting the chapters as I write them over here but I am presenting the prologue in a few weeks and I wanted to get feedback on it. It's a book about step-parenting in India. It's very personal. I am posting the prologue here because I would love it if you would give me feedback on whether you would want to read this book based on this introd...
2025-06-03 08:03:37 +0000 UTC
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Patience is a very important skill as a writer. Whether you are writing an essay, a short-story or a longer narrative piece of work, the temptation to reveal all of yourself, your plot and your characters immediately will present itself. You will feel the desire to explain yourself, it may even feel like a nagging bit of unfinished business is lingering in your mind until you purge yourself of everything you want to say immediately and all at once. The patience to resist that is vital ...
2025-06-02 09:55:26 +0000 UTC
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I’m a terrible tennis player but for many years I continued to play because of a tyrannical coach I absolutely loved. I never did get better at playing the game, mostly because my brain is completely unable to process a ball coming at me, I know I am supposed to hit it but I will almost always strike air instead and on the oft chance I do hit the ball, I will be so surprised I did it, I will stand there in shock while it is returned and let it hit me. Still, I kept going back to my lessons ...
2025-05-31 05:51:23 +0000 UTC
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I am writing this from the floor beside the bed where you are lounging. You didn’t tell me to get down here, not this time, but I felt like I needed to be here. My grandparents were professors in a very elder-reverent, post-colonial, small-town part of India, and until the end of their lives, their former students felt the need to touch their feet whenever they saw them, some of them wouldn’t even sit at the same height as them, opting for the floor or a low-stool when in their presence, ...
2025-05-23 06:18:01 +0000 UTC
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'Take me, take me, take me,' is what I said.
It wasn't really sex until you hit me. The first time, the second or maybe it was the third. It wasn't really sex until your belt met my back and your palm met my cheek, but it was also *just* sex. I don't mean to denigrate sex, lord knows there is no form of intimacy of which I am more fond, but in the beginning, there was so much urgent need, I don't even remember breathing that first year that we were together. I think, may...
2025-05-22 12:10:04 +0000 UTC
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This book is a compilation of 29 individual erotic stories. Some have been posted here before and others are new. I am attaching the document for anyone who wishes to read it.
2025-05-15 05:16:10 +0000 UTC
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As I drive past the little yellow house that signals the end of this street, my phone beeps and the message flashes over the navigation-screen in front of me. It’s my partner threatening to wreck me as soon as I get home. A chill of arousal and nerves washes over me as I turn into the lane that will take me home. The familiarity of the street calms me, even as its proximity to home reminds me of what may come. Every day, at roughly this time, I drive this route to-and-from the pool. The rou...
2025-05-08 03:13:43 +0000 UTC
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I got a bit tired of doing posts about the ten mistakes we are all making in various things so I figured I will start doing a series about the ten things I learnt from various people in my life. I am starting with my spouse because he went on a 2-day work trip and I miss him. As always, this written list is accompanied by a podcast episode on the subject (and as always, the podcast is the real, detailed deal and the list is just for people who don’t want to listen to me be marginally funny ...
2025-05-06 07:46:15 +0000 UTC
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2025-05-04 06:34:36 +0000 UTC
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This is the link to join the upcoming class on 4 May 2025 at 10 AM. This time and date is in IST, the time that is local to you can be found on the fetlife event page.
The Art Of Receiving Impact With Ancilla
Sunday, May 4 • 10:00 – 12:00
Google Meet joining info
Video call link: https://meet.google.com/mvp-hbcw-...
2025-05-02 16:34:28 +0000 UTC
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Going to start adding some things that are not quite classes but not quite podcasts either. In the vein of tips, Q&As, ideas and other materials. Accessible at the Supporter Tier and above.
2025-04-24 04:45:31 +0000 UTC
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Do you believe in soul-mates?
2025-04-24 04:43:26 +0000 UTC
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She wanted to replace all the cups in her house. It was not a big deal, she just wanted all her cups to be white and uniform, but her partner thought it was unnecessary to do it. Their cups were fine. Still, she was adamant so she asked me for a favour. She told me that she would tell him that we were doing the dishes and we put all the cups in a tray after we washed and dried them, and then she gave them to me to place them in the cabinet and on my way there, I dropped the tray and broke eve...
2025-04-23 10:38:37 +0000 UTC
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Hi everyone. This is with regard to the online class on Rape Play that I taught yesterday. Usually, I post the recorded version of the class the day after the live class but in an unforeseen twist the file was corrupted and I have to re-record the class to post it. It will be posted within this week. I appreciate your patience and am very sorry. Thank you.
2025-04-21 05:05:02 +0000 UTC
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The five films I have watched in my life led me to believe that when a man brushes the hair off your face and tucks it behind your ear, it's a sensual act of intimacy meant to indicate just how much he cares about you. I think about that every single time my husband brushes the hair off my face, because when he does, it just means I am going to wake up with a swollen face and the juxtaposition tickles me so much. He does it with such tenderness, but it sends waves of fear down m...
2025-04-12 05:05:17 +0000 UTC
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I keep saying I'll try stand-up in my 40s, but I started today. It's hard to say what it is about but the reason I am attracted to it as a form in the first place is because it doesn't seem like it has to be about anything. Me? I am talking about cows, HOAs versus RWAs, Uncles, Abortions and some other stuff.
2025-04-08 08:28:34 +0000 UTC
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I am lying on top of a bed of gravel. It has not been very long since dusk fell so the rocks are still a little warm, but the comfort of that does little to allay the pain of the jagged edges digging into my naked flesh. The wind is cool, a pleasant chill, unlike the last six months when stepping out without a sweater was akin to asking for hypothermia, and I shiver in pleasure as it makes contact with my exposed cunt. We must never let the tourists find out that April is the best month to vi...
2025-04-01 07:39:38 +0000 UTC
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I threw a dinner party recently. Lately, I've been prescribing myself socialisation like one would prescribe medication. I have little natural inclination to participate but I realise that self-imposed isolation has hampered my mental health so I'm no longer focused on meeting people I like, so long as I just continue to meet people. I know that connection and acceptance probably have more emotional value than just exposure but we'll get to that when I am emotionally able to do so, for...
2025-03-31 13:00:16 +0000 UTC
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Really, I talked a lot and I did some weird things:
I dissed Game of Thrones.
I explained why the Poor Things movie is crap.
I praised 50 Shades of Grey (not what it sounds like).
I was a very snooty and prissy literature-bitch through the whole thing.
I recommended a book, but WHICH ONE? Ha.
2025-03-28 06:03:03 +0000 UTC
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“There was something intoxicating about the validation of being loved by someone like her,” he explained to me, “She is intelligent, glamorous and kind of famous, and the fact that someone like her would love me felt very good.”
As he reflected on the relationship, a darker look came over his face. Of course, I knew it was about the months of recovering from the heartbreak that followed, the many sleepless nights and the recurring bouts of depression.
“Of ...
2025-03-26 03:07:35 +0000 UTC
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Note: This is part of a Sextbook on Power-Exchange I am in the process of writing. The earlier chapters can be accessed at this tag. It is currently only accessible to my patrons.
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Chapter 6
Scope of Control
The scope of control of anything determines the limit as well as the direction something can take...
2025-03-20 06:08:48 +0000 UTC
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Please find attached, the following:
Recording of me teaching the class.
Power-point presentation used to teach the class.
Reading notes for the class.
PS: This class was interactive so there may be sections in between where other people are answering questions that have not been included in the recording.
2025-03-10 04:10:41 +0000 UTC
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Hello all!
This is the joining information for the class on Sexual Communication being conducted on 09 March 2025, 11 AM to 1 PM (IST). If you wish to join live, the details are:
Sexual Communication Class With Ancilla
Sunday, Mar 9 • 11:00 – 13:00
Google Meet joining info
Video call link: https://meet.google.com/pse-ryui-avo
Or dial: +1 347-345-3070 PIN: 504 613 413#
2025-03-08 04:08:07 +0000 UTC
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How important is it to laugh together? Do you need to have a sense of humour that is compatible with your partner? How funny is too funny? Are there good and bad times to be funny? Let's discuss.
2025-03-03 12:59:36 +0000 UTC
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The first *strange* thing my stepson ever saw me do was polishing my spouse's shoes on a Sunday evening. It had only been a few months since he had been living with us and until then, I had mostly continued to perform my more slavish duties in the privacy of our bedroom. However, that evening, he was loudly complaining about the fact that he had to polish his shoes to get ready for school so I mentioned that I had to polish his father's shoes too and we could just do it together.
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2025-02-25 10:45:59 +0000 UTC
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This is part of The Power-Exchange Sextbook that I am currently writing. As of now, these chapters are only available to my patrons on here. You can access the earlier chapters at this tag.
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Chapter 5
Spheres of Control
Control is a vast concept and a very general term. Not only is it dependent on what qualifies as being controlled to a pers...
2025-02-23 09:13:21 +0000 UTC
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This is the fourth chapter of the Power Exchange Sextbook that I am writing. You can access the earlier chapters at this tag. This book is not published yet and this work is exclusively for subscribers.
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Chapter 4
Systems of Addressal
A system of addressal is a method of referring to another person, not by using their name, but ...
2025-02-14 04:01:52 +0000 UTC
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I squint my eyes at him as he sits on the bench and takes the shoes out of the box. Plainly-speaking, I hate his new shoes. I could very easily make a case for why they aren’t good shoes—the leather is not so supple, the shape is too oblong, they are too narrow and seem not to be very resilient—but the enthymeme of my case is that all of my reasoning is arising from comparing his new shoes to the ones he is replacing. It wouldn’t really matter if they were perfect in every qualitative...
2025-02-13 07:17:34 +0000 UTC
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This is the recorded version for the class on Drop, Frenzy and Space. Please find attached (downloadable versions of):
The recording of me teaching the class.
The powerpoint presentation used to teach the class.
The reading notes for the class.
All of this material is for personal-use only. Please do not disseminate, plagiarise or post anywhere else. If you find this class useful, 2025-02-11 08:19:01 +0000 UTC
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