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Men, Avoid Being In A Relationship With Women Who Display These Behaviours

Added 2023-06-30 12:22:52 +0000 UTC

Gents,

Here are 7 types of behaviour from a woman that should make you think twice about having a serious, long-term relationship with her.

Ladies, It's worth noting that these behaviours are not gender-specific.

Men can display these traits too, so if you're a woman reading this, it's definitely relevant for you as well.

1. She Is Always In A Bad Mood

No matter how good your problem solving skills are, this is the type to be ALWAYS upset about something and you're always going to think you are the problem and need to fix her.

It's gonna be one them ones where you find yourself having to apologise for nearly everything that happens and somehow the fault is always on you.

Imagine being in a thunderstorm that never ends. That's what being with her feels like. You try your best to make things better, but she's always mad. It makes you feel like you're always messing up.

Even small things become big problems. You're always to blame, even for things that are not your fault. You're always saying sorry. This is her trick to control you, by making you feel like you're always in the wrong.

2. She Is Always Dissatisfied With You

Nothing you do is ever enough!

Picture this: you're on a treadmill, running at top speed, but the finish line keeps moving further away.

That's what being with her feels like. You try everything, but it's never enough. She never makes you feel valued or appreciated, leaving you constantly chasing after her approval.

You find yourself always having to do more, be more, try harder. And for what? A nod of approval that never comes?

This is her way of holding the reins in the relationship, keeping you forever in a race where the finish line is always just out of reach.

I'm all for pursuing and showing interest, but you should be doing it somewhere your efforts are valued and appreciated.

3. Constant Accusations

She's got an accusation for every occasion.

From you not caring enough to forgetting minute details, she’s always ready to play judge and jury.

You may feel like you're on a court trial, accused of crimes you didn’t even know you could commit.

You become a permanent resident of her personal courtroom, where you're always on the stand.

The verdict is often guilty, and the punishment usually involves you trying harder to please her.

This constant blame game is another one of her manipulative techniques, aimed at keeping you off balance.

4. She Is Dismissive

Another common manipulation tactic is her dismissive attitude towards your feelings or concerns.

She will belittle your emotions, ignore your needs, or make light of issues that are important to you. This can leave you feeling unheard and unimportant.

It's like you're a ghost in your own relationship. This is another one of her power plays.

By making you feel insignificant, she leaves you grappling for a sense of importance.

5. DGAF About Your Emotions

They are narcissistic and don't have any emotional empathy.

This is the type of woman who will make you feel weak, make fun of you and shame you for showing or wanting to talk about your emotions.

To her, your feelings are like a foreign film without subtitles. She doesn't understand them and, frankly, doesn't want to.

This doesn't mean that you should be a crybaby however, if you are considering a serious relationship, it's important to be with a woman who won't shame you for going through some emotional events that could happen in your life.

6. She Compares You To Other Guys

Comparing you with guys who have more money.

Talking about her famous or rich ex boyfriends.

By doing this, she's trying to make you work harder and feel bad about yourself and it feels like she's saying you're not good enough.

This is a way for her to control you and make you feel like you always have to prove yourself.

7. She Is Very Controlling

She's always telling you what to do, where to go, and who to be friends with.

It's like you're not allowed to make your own choices.

She acts this way to control you and make you feel like you can't do anything without her say-so.

This is how she keeps you under her thumb and makes you feel like you're always trying to keep her happy.

She will treat you like a little boy.

She's trying to make you feel like you can't do anything without telling her first. It's like she's a shadow that never leaves your side.

She does this to keep you under her control.

It's her way of making you feel like you need her permission for everything you do.

It's like she wants to be the boss of your life, and you're always trying to keep her happy.

Summary

All relationships have good and bad times. But, if you're a guy with a lot to offer, stay away from women who consistently act like the ways talked about in this post.

You should be with someone who treats you well, not someone who makes you feel bad about yourself and plays games with your mind & Emotions.