Why You Need To Be A Ruthless Cunt To Achieve Your Goals

This post is to encourage you to develop a ruthless mentality around your goals. 

You need to priority your goals over the desires of other people. 

Being ruthless means being willing to lose friends, miss events, and offend people in order to achieve your goals. 

I have missed:

- Baby showers

- Birthday parties / outings

- Sex (some girls would message me asking to meet but I'm busy) 

- Christmas dinner invites

- More...

A High level of success requires being dedicated and selfishly committed to your craft and goals, even if it means being perceived as a "dick".

Many people are scared to offend others and are too nice, which leads to a pattern of others expecting them to always say yes. 

Selfish people who go after what they want always succeed and you must be willing to live with the consequences of your decisions. 

In order to be successful, you need to have a ruthless mentality from the moment you wake up and be willing to say no and prioritise your time appropriately.

Start being ruthless with your TIME. 

Women are also naturally drawn to ruthless men because they get things done, and most men want to be ruthless but are afraid to be. 

Cutting anyone out of your life, no matter who they are, is necessary to achieve greatness. 

- Stop being such a yes man/woman

- Stop being friends with people who never pay you back on time 

- Stop being friends with people who add no value to your life like you do to them

- Stop being friends with people who accept mediocrity 

- Stop being friends with people who have nothing going on in their life

- Stop allowing people who did you wrong back into your life

- Stop satisfying your family and friends over your own needs & goals 

- Stop being afraid to say things to your bf/gf because you're afraid they might get angry

- Stop always saying 'yes' because you are afraid of saying no and disappointing others

I say 'No' to people's requests 10 times more than I say 'Yes'

A single decision you make to benefit your life could be what ends things with your friends, family and GF/BF

Then your emotional impulses will kick in to stop making the decision due to your fear of being alone even though you KNOW that decision is the best choice to make for your life. 

This leads to people staying and entertaining their toxic family

This leads to people staying in a toxic / shit / low value friendship circle 

This leads to men not leaving a relationship due to the fear of lack of sex 

This leads to women not leaving a relationship because of fear of being alone 

Making decisions that benefit us requires blocking out primitive impulses from our reptilian brains that lead to emotional and impulse decisions. 

The logical decisions are usually the best decisions but they are also the hardest to make due to all the emotional components tied behind them.

It's like when people go into trading and get soo emotionally tied up into the stock or coin, then end up staying in it longer than they need to and ultimately end up losing a lot of money.

It's similar to sports betting as well, when people are emotionally tied up into their favourite sports team or athlete then end up gambling with emotion rather than logic.

Sometimes you have to block out the emotional impulses and make decisions that will be best for YOU. 

Ironically, you will realise your life get better and better when you do this. 

You have to be ruthless with everything you do, including your time, money, investments, assets and the decisions you make with your life.

Having everything we want in life takes time to put in place, but having everything at once is impossible. 

You can have everything... but just not all one go.

You can't have an amazing body, but drink alcohol and eat crap food everyday.

You can't be out with your gf/bf 3-4 days a week but still have time to crush your goals.

You can't be a shopaholic whilst trying to save and make investments

You can't be out socialising 3-4 nights a weeks whilst building a successful business or trying to get the best academic results.

You can have a lot of these things together once you're at a high enough level, however you can't have it all at one go, especially in the beginning / building stages

You have to be willing to be assertive and sticking to your decisions, even if it means putting up with the consequences of making those decisions. 

Being willing to die by the sword of your decisions is what will make you successful in any area of life. 

When you are successful, you can be the most nicest, loving and most charitable person in the world but in order to get to the place, you need to be ruthless and selfish.

'if you want to go far, go with people but if you want to go fast, go alone'

In the beginning, you need to go fast. Yes, you can still be patient but you need to focus on EXECUTING & making moves QUICKLY. Time waits for no man. 

Pre 30 years old is mainly about making good effective decisions that will benefit the rest of your life. Most people's lives are messed up mainly because of their poor decision making choices. 

You can't be sitting pitying yourself for 3-4 months straight, you need to pity yourself for 3-4 DAYS then wake up and go execute on the shit you know you need to be doing.

- This applies to people who are in families that over pressuring them to get married

- This applies to people are in toxic families

- This applies to people who have unsupportive friends and partners

You need to be RUTHLESS and distance yourself from these people. 

Every successful person is dedicated and selfishly committed to their craft, which is something that aspiring individuals must embody if they want to reach success.

Be a ruthless and selfish cunt, then focus on being loving and caring when you're finally in a good position to help people.

- Till next time