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(ARTICLE) How To Get Revenge On Your EX


This may not be the evil Machiavellian strategy you was expecting to hear, but revenge is for children.

If you REALLY want to get revenge on your EX, then become successful in all areas of your life.



success is the best revenge when you get screwed over — whether you get cheated on, your significant other leaves you, you lose your company, somebody screws you over in a business deal. Succeeding anyway is the best kind of a revenge.


For all of those of you who are going through a difficult time and may feel hopeless right now, there is light at the end of the tunnel.


It’s going to take time to turn things around in your life. It’s not going to happen overnight. Anybody that tells you it’s going to happen overnight is full of BS. 

That’s just reality. Success is long in coming. And revenge is a dish best served cold.


Success is the best kind of revenge to silence the haters and people who did you dirty. 

The world is full of vengeful, hateful and unhappy people who are looking to project their self-hatred and self-loathing onto others, so they can absolve themselves from the guilt of their own shortcomings, flaws and personal responsibility.

Your success or failure in life is determined by what you do or fail to do, not by what your haters and doubters say you can’t do.


Succeed anyway.







“Black dickies, black tint up on my jag

Drive slow, let my ex-hoes witness what they had”


- Nipsey Hussle, Bullets Ain't Got No Name Volume 3 2009









Success is always the best revenge.


When a man/woman see’s that you’ve levelled up beyond what they thought you could ever be and how you’ve upgraded your life and you’re doing much better



That will haunt her/him forever unless she/he manages to get someone better than you, but most the time, they won’t be able to do that


LEVELLING UP IN LIFE IS THE BEST WAY TO GET BACK AT YOUR EX - WHETHER YOU ARE A MAN OR WOMAN.



Then if she/he tries to come back, you can deny her/him that access to your greatness.




Things To Understand


When you try to seek revenge, you rob yourself of the energy which could be spent on becoming a great man or woman.

It takes a lot of mental and physical energy trying to get revenge on someone else.

A lot of energy which could be spent on bettering your life and on bettering yourself.

Sitting back plotting and trying to figure out how to get back at him/her takes too much time and energy. You only have 24 hours in a day

Stop robbing yourself off all that time and energy.



Having the urge for ‘Revenge’ will slow down your healing process

You won’t be able to grow and move past that situation if you’re still holding on it trying to seek revenge.

When a man or woman does you dirty, you want to focus on healing as fast as possible.

And every time you think about or plot on how you will get him/her back will just open up those emotional wounds you haven’t dealt with which makes your healing process prolong.

Life goes on, your life isn’t going to all of a sudden come to an end because she/he left you. Take that shit on the chin and move on & do better.

Upgrade your life and let them see how bad they fucked up.

Thats the only way you get revenge on an ex….

You cannot heal when you have hate inside you, you cannot heal when you are thirsty for blood and this energy will also transfer into new people you meet in life.

You have to heal - revenge prevents you from healing




“But I just wana fuck her one last time and toss her away”


There’s a high chance most men are not emotionally strong enough to do that.

Because if you're not even strong enough to get over her, then you're definitely not strong enough to ‘toss her’

You gonna go back and get done even worse than last time.

Let that shit go.




Success is the best revenge.

Focus on upgrading your life.









Till Next Time.


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