#156 Uncut Video w/ Alli Bellairs

Solid episode. Love the multi-level banter.

You never think it’s going to be you, then one day Ashley says listener, write in, does delta have you by the labia? And I realize that this is the moment my Delta status calc spreadsheet has been preparing me for🫡

Trista

Alli is so insanely funny, and she did not get enough laughs, and zoom making you guys miss her jokes is a hate crime 😭. Please have her back

Right now AMEX has me pretty solidly...I don't really travel enough to want to be loyal to a single airline, so the solution is to get the AMEX gold card and rack up membership rewards points that I transfer to the various airline loyalty program accounts I have when I want to redeem them...

B

Yup, I'm in the reverse position of yours and being curious about a man having sex with my vagina (not trans/nonbinary, just curious and don't really feel gender roles).

B

THE COLLAB I DIDNT KNOW I WANTED THIS BAD

Another Merch idea: (graffiti font) for a good time text "insert text list number here"

Merch idea: team tomboy tits

I wanna start this with SHOP LOCAL! But if you happen to be a Starbucks loyalist and use the app you can link your delta points to it and ear miles.

As someone who as ADHD I DIED laughing at Alli’s add and subtract joke! 🤣

I'm old AF as well, United has me by the labia. Gimme my points!

As a musician, I absolutely agree with Ashley that seeing great musicians in their flow state is awesome!! The funny faces we make are also called a stank face, and it's one of the greatest compliments to a musician for someone to have a stank face listening to their music!

Lowly, peasant barista here to thank you for your consideration of my privacy and I will not be returning the favor by outing you as a fellow queer who still drinks cow's milk

Also sometime's i literally fantasize i am the man with a dick having sex with a woman. Still not trans though. Not even binary! Just a little free from gender roles.

To maddie who wont be reading this: i wish there were days i could take off my boobs. but not in a way where i identify as male. just in a way where on the days i'm feeling more masc, my outward presentation could match what i'm feeling inside. and then on my more feminine days where i'm grateful for my curves, i'm happy they're there. esp when i'm in a bra! I think many of us feel this way. I also agree that wearing a strap can feel gender euphoric when you're feeling masc that particular time too. i truly believe it's all fluid, and for some of us it's a bit of everywhere and it's all just perfect!

Hey! Femme-identifying queer woman with she/her pronouns here and I can totally relate to what Maddie is saying about the feeling of wanting to have the sensation of the penis while fucking someone with a strap. Every time I am the one wearing the strap I have such a strong desire to feel the sensations of what feels like "my" penis. That desire goes well beyond wanting to be stimulated clitorally at the same time as I'm penetrating my partner so even though having the vibrator on my end can help, it never fully quenches that desire.

I look forward to Monday mornings because of this podcast.. for a while when I was single I would always ask the girls I would go on dates with if they listened and if they had never heard of the pod 🚩 my now girlfriend has been listening since the beginning, we actually had sex for the first time with the podcast on in the back 🤣

AT LAST, THE COLLAB I'VE BEEN WAITING FOR!!!

omg YES, we need more Alli!!!

Alli should be the next co host 🙏💖

Alli was such a good time!

This was such a funny episode! I feel like there were a couple of points where Alli went a little off the rails, but I laughed so much! A suggestion regarding friction with the strap-on: there are different kinds of harnesses with more or less padding, depending on what you need. There is also strap-on underwear (RodeoH is a brand I’ve used in the past), altho it’s harder to have as much control over the strap when wearing these. Yes, we love to hear Maddie’s sharing corner and when Ash & Maddie talk about gender! I don’t personally question my gender, but I think it’s interesting to hear about and I like to hear other people discuss it. It’s an intriguing part of the queer experience, for sure. Thanks again for a fun episode! :D

Bonnie