What’s the ONE thing that wakes your libido back up? Feeling wanted? A certain kind of touch? A moment of relaxation? The way someone looks at you? What’s your switch? I’m genuinely curious - please share your thoughts below. 👇
Added 2025-12-17 15:43:06 +0000 UTCComments
Feeling wanted.
Mark Buchanan
2025-12-30 01:43:38 +0000 UTCWhen she puts her hand on me and the light touching begins.
DavidD
2025-12-18 19:03:35 +0000 UTCI appreciate you sharing that!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-18 17:27:28 +0000 UTCI hear you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-18 17:27:06 +0000 UTCThat's interesting! Thank you for sharing.
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-18 17:26:26 +0000 UTCThank you for sharing!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-18 17:25:52 +0000 UTCFair enough!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-18 17:25:30 +0000 UTCI appreciate you sharing!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-18 17:25:22 +0000 UTCAppreciate you sharing!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-18 17:25:00 +0000 UTCI hear you!
Lovely Dutta
2025-12-18 17:24:47 +0000 UTCFeeling wanted, for no specific reason outside of emotional attraction ... a loving smile that expresses, "I'm REALLY happy to see you!"
Grouchy Vince
2025-12-17 21:44:42 +0000 UTCMy wife loves to grab my package casually while we are in the kitchen or the bedroom or pretty much just about anywhere. Confidence is what makes women sexy (to me) so my libido is instantly turned to 11 as soon as she grabs me - if only in passing.
Tommy
2025-12-17 20:11:43 +0000 UTCWhen she unexpectedly begins to stroke/rub my chest, hugs me from behind, or sends me a flirtatious text. If I catch her taking a peek while I'm showering, or if she comments on my muscles (I've been working out more lately). Basically, being desired. Seeing her touch herself sends me through the roof. From time to time, she might take a shower while I'm soaking in a bath -- it drives me crazy.
Robert Voccola
2025-12-17 18:17:08 +0000 UTCLittle things, like when my wife starts rubbing my shoulders, gives me a hug, or cuddles in the middle of the night, when she laughs at one of my jokes, or when our eyes lock and she smiles at me. We've been together for 30 years. There is very little left of the newness, but the connection is stronger than ever.
Matt D
2025-12-17 16:54:32 +0000 UTCFeeling Wanted
Paul McCrone
2025-12-17 16:46:46 +0000 UTCI think for me the most amazing libido booster is feeling wanted it can come in different ways , but a woman telling me she wants me, even a text or a real intimate conection or flirtation can really get my mind thinking about it and my body sensing the energy that is so powerful . Its really interesting that even at 55 i still feel this amazing tingling and arousal .If she starts touching and kissing me its inevitable what will happen next. I just want to reciprocate the emotions and then make love to her . Thank you for the question Caitlin v 😍
Raymond
2025-12-17 16:27:05 +0000 UTCIm 58 and in the past year have only discovered that feeling wanted is my key to most everything. Sex most definitely. My whole life would have been much more filling if I would have been aware of this sooner. My new wife of 1 year is a very sexual person but experience sexual trauma, young. So she pretty much has to ask for it or it triggers bad things for her. I have never felt so loved. Sex has never been so good. Being truly wanted and shown that regularly is a hudge plus in my life now. Too bad ladies dont realize the power they have that is so easily available.
Mick Peterson
2025-12-17 16:08:17 +0000 UTCFor this, I'm happy to say the answer is internal. When I feel capable, my drive is switched on.
Eli Israel
2025-12-17 16:07:15 +0000 UTC
