Caitlin V

Let’s play a little “Then vs. Now.” 👀 What’s something you used to believe about sex, pleasure, or performance… that you laugh at now (or just quietly cringe about)? 👇 Drop yours below.

Passion in the Bedroom🔥

I built a SEX toy! 💦👀

Back in 2010, I saw an ad for a music-responsive vibrator.

As a DJ and sex coach, I thought , this is it.

And over the years, I kept running into other music-responsive toys that claimed to do the same thing… but none of them delivered.

They were buzzy, disconnected, and nothing like what music really feels like in the body.

But I couldn’t shake the idea.

What if music didn’t just set the mood - what if it became ...

"How do I actually know if I'm good in bed?"

This is the question I hear all the time from men.

And honestly?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer.

It’s not just about stamina or skill , it’s about presence, attention, and how your partner feels with you.

Still, it’s such a loaded word: good.

So let’s unpack it a little.

👉 What does “being good in bed” mean to you?

Like... if you had to define it for yourself , not what porn says, not what TikTok says - what would you say actuall...

Cum Shots

What if your favorite song… made you CUM?

If you’ve ever had a song turn you on…

Or felt your body respond to a beat without even thinking about it -

Then you’ll get why I’ve been obsessed with this idea for years.

What if your playlist didn’t just set the mood…

What if it was the sensation?

That question led to Groove Thing - a toy that lets you literally feel music inside your body.

It syncs to real sound. Not fake pulses or random patterns ...

2025-07-11_AMA Recording

My Transition from Poly to Monogamy with Kenya

Having "The Talk"

See you this Friday for my AMA!

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D-Mannose

Here’s something most men never hear:

Every time you rely on porn to get off, you’re outsourcing your imagination.

Porn does the work for your brain - so your own fantasy muscles stay weak.

Over time? You need more intense clips just to get the same rush and then real-life sex can feel… flat.

One of the best things you can do for better sensitivity and deeper pleasure is to train your mind to turn you on - without a screen.

Memory, fantasy, real sensations.

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My Therapy/Coach/Personal Development Journey

Sex after Divorce w/ Dr Tara

Would you rather: morning sex or a midnight quickie? Cast your vote below - let’s see which is more popular! 👀

Ever had sex that ‘worked’ physically but felt disconnected? What do you think was missing? 🤔

Coital Alignment Technique

I’ve watched so many men want to show up better for their partners but no one ever taught them how to really listen to a woman’s body.

I remember the first time a partner asked, “Is this what you like?”


Not because he was insecure… but because he cared. Because he wanted to learn.
And honestly? That moment of curiosity turned me on more than anything else.

Women’s bodies don’t follow a one-size-fits-all script. What works one day might feel off the next. Our rhythms shift with emotion, stress, or even our cycle.

That’s exactly what inspired Deep Impact - a space where I teach the nuance beh...

Groove Thing: The Sex Toy I Built for Myself

Musical Toy Launch!!

Me Too Movement

Be honest... do you have a "sex playlist"? 🎶🔥

What's one song that instantly makes you feel hotter, more playful, or more connected in bed?

(Drop it below - we're all stealing each other's tracks tonight 😉)

Fun fact: Music has always been my secret weapon for deeper connection and better sex.

That's actually what inspired my new project 🥹 → trygroovething.com/caitlinv

We Built a Sex Toy!

What if your vibrator didn’t just hum… but actually played your favorite song through your body? 🎶💜

Years ago, biking past a cheeky shop in Amsterdam, I saw an iPod plugged into a vibrator and a wild idea was born.

After years of dreaming and designing with Michael and our brilliant designer Sasha, it’s finally real: Groove Thing - the world’s first internal music player.

It’s not just a vibe that buzzes to a beat – Groove T...

One of my most popular YouTube videos recently was about why women lose interest in sex with age.

Clearly… it struck a chord! 👀

So now I’m curious:

👉 As a man, have you noticed women’s desire change with age?

Either in a partner — or someone you’ve been with?

Note:

We’ll drop the video link in the comments.

P.S. If you’re curious, here’s the video → youtu.be/OwdlWwHKrp0

What’s something your partner does that instantly turns you on? 👀

The latest technology in sex tech👀

2025-06-13_AMA Recording

See you in 1 hour!

Don't miss my live Q&A at 11:30 am PST. See you there! 💖

Xoxo,

Caitlin V

See you this Friday for my AMA!

Don't miss out on this month's Ask Me Anything! Submit your question here: https://wkf.ms/3ZqhiKm

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