Some people will get mad at you for not being who they want you to be. Or numbers will just show us we are not enough to be noticed. However we forget one of the biggest forms of self-betrayal is living our life by others rules instead of our own. So many of us are living by others rules and betraying ourselves with our current lives around us and social media. No wonder we all struggle with mental health, connecting to ourselves and others. We are not born to be amongst a numbered orientated social media platform or perfect world of ideals. We have forgotten we are born to be humans and our task is not to be perfect, compete, compare or be like something. It is simply to: be kind, be real, stay humble, keep growing, and unapologetically live our best life.
However, so many of us instead get lost so often in searching for meaning in every start, ending and every moment, and try to dig into the ‘why’ so deeply. But we forget we will only ever see ourselves, because we have walls up that keep the person in the mirror always protecting our hearts and egos. The real beauty of life experience, closure and peace exists within our acceptance of what we cannot change. When we stop looking for answers and within the spaces we can not assign to a box or label we learn acceptance.
Until we learn this and it’s a journey of a lifetime. I to hope it’s beautiful wherever we all are. If not I hope you remember you are beautiful and awesome and can make it beautiful. And I hope we all keep working on making ourselves proud as we journey to acceptance.