4 Dating Rules I Would Tell My Daughter (If I Had One)

Here are 4 rules for dating I'd teach my daughter, if I had one.

1. Be Cautious Of The Guy(s) Who Are Amazing On The First Date

For someone to become really good at something, it requires practice.

A guy who is absolutely amazing on a first date displays that he has been on loads of first dates.

Which usually mean he probably is not looking to settle down into anything serious and is just around for a good short time.

There is nothing bad about this but you should avoid falling for these types soo soon.

What you want to look out for is consistency in his behaviour, words and mentality.

What tends to happen with most guys is that they're amazing on a first date, but that's not who THEY REALLY ARE and eventually, their real self will reveal itself and after things just go downhill.

Guys learn dating strategies, how to behave, act, what to say, then they will implement these things onto a girl to emotionally and mentally manipulate her into sleeping with him and then he will disappear.

So take it with a grain of salt if a guy displays charisma, charm, confidence on a first date. Start being impressed by him, IF he is still being this way after a while of hanging out together.

Most people are experts at hiding who they are when you first meet them and as a woman, failing to realise this could lead to a 'Ladies man' selling you a fairytale which ends in a heartbreak

If you meet a guy on a first date and he comes across as a bit shy or awkward, this is a good sign.

It shows:

He is not used to being on first dates (good sign) either because he has only been in long term relationships or he has not been with that many girls. which is ideally what you'd want if you are a woman who is looking for a serious relationship.

Don't cut him off or ghost him because he is not super charming on day 1, he may need time to get comfortable being around you before his full personality comes out.

Note: This doesn’t mean to cut off a guy who is amazing on a first date, just be cautious and don't rush into anything sexual so quickly.

2. Avoid Guys Who Are Staying In A Hotel Room In Your City

This indicates that a guy is not staying in your city for a long time and he is only around for a short time.

Very low possibility of anything long term festering from these types of men.

3. Make Him Wait

I'm not telling you how long you should wait until you decide to sleep with someone, that's entirely your decision.

However, If you are serious about a relationship, don't sleep with a guy on the very first date.

Be cautious with you decide to give your body to because each time you do it, the meaning of 'Love' will diminish for you.

4. Don't Go Out 'For Drinks' On A First Date

It's no secret Wine and Alcohol gets women in the mood.

You're drinking alcohol and alcohol tends to make peoples inhibitions lower.

This is a classic way of making you more relaxed so they can advance on you with the least amount of resistance.

If you're going to do things, do activities which don't involve alcohol.

For a first date, do activities where you will have to meet up during the morning, day time or afternoon.

If it's the first date, avoid going on dates where it's in the late evening or night time.

Do activities which don't end in a room together.

- Till Next Time