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November Bonus Stories 1, 2, 3, & 4 ! - Video

Get ready to see my jaw drop during some of these ones.. Story one comes out swinging and I don't know if Ive seen Lauren so angry in a minute! What are your thoughts on these ones?

November Bonus Stories 1, 2, 3, & 4 ! - Video

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hey i have a topic id love to see on an episode! i think itd be interesting to see what kinds of musical stories are out there on reddit. someone stealing a guitar, maybe an inherited piano people are fighting over, idk, but itd be fun to have a full on music based episode. i love all of your content and i hope one day i can meet everyone at a live show, maybe next year if youre planning one near (hopefuly southern) kansas! thanks for being awesome and making my work days spent cleaning more bearable, especially on tired days like today lol

Zephyr M

Yall.. when I had surgery my fiancé literally wouldn’t even let the dogs near me LET ALONE 5 13 year old boys. Nope.

Denise Moulton

Ugh the eras tour was so hard. Sucks on both sides but yeah not the asshole

Brittny Membreno

always happy to support the show 🩷

Mary Lillard

I was JUST thinking this!

Zoe Ott

I’m sorry but you don’t owe anyone anything. You can let your life life as it does.. we are consumers of your product and members of your community, but we should not be dictating your priorities. Give yourself the grace you’re always reminding others to take!

Sami Zoss

Omg it was in the San Diego show I was in the same table when she gave those signs to your dad ☺️

Yadira Vargas

Women of the hour was so good! I’ll definitely go watch table 19 now I’ve never heard of it before

Rocky 8

Im completely with Lauren on the last story, Lisa is EVIL. Clearly delighting in her partners pain

Arabella C

she KNOWS

Arabella C

omg what I would give to experience LOTR for the first time again

Arabella C

I would be furious to in the last story.

Justin

Story 3. That sister has probloms.

Justin

I agree with you. Depends on the relationship. If my mom passed & my sis in law or close best friend went to a concert I wouldn’t say those things but I’d be hurt. It all depends on circumstances. & I feel like details are missing. Like I don’t think they’re the a . Hole but I would be offended but I wouldn’t say those things to them I just think the sis in law is hurt and grieving idk . None are a.holes but I feel so bad for o.p … also sorry 4 ur loss. Wishing much love

Ylena Camou

Also I am saying this as a huge Taylor swift fan and music lover. I live in Indianapolis and tried multiple multiple times to get tickets the first round for anywhere and second round too and never could and have been heartbroken about that. And all that being said, If this was me I would still be pissed because - it’s just a concert. Compared to losing your parent?? It just really makes you gain a perspective. And seeing someone close to you choose something that suddenly seems so minuscule, that’s incredibly isolating and makes you feel not cared for

Cameron Adams

The eras story- I just lost my mom this year in an accident and it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through. I don’t think op is an “asshole” technically, but I can 100% also see the sister in laws pov. Honestly if I was her, I would be extremely upset and mad too. When you’re going through such an intense grief that feels like the world is over- someone close to you having a good time, feels so incredibly hurtful. You can’t imagine anyone not understanding how you feel and feeling the same. And yeah maybe that’s not rational but grief isn’t rational and it’s a huge feeling during grief to feel alone isolated and abandoned. I think it also depends how close op and sister in law are. It sounds like the sister in law is acting like everyone is abandoning her and she is close with op. If that’s the case I don’t see how there is a huge difference between your romantic partner doing this, and someone you consider family. Since my mom died I’ve had best friends completely abandon me and have felt extremely isolated. I hardly have any family, so the people who stayed to support me can be a chosen family. I think the sister in law has a right to be upset, and op has a right to go technically. And since the damage is done, I feel like op should just profusely apologize and try to make it up to her. Say she didn’t know what to do in such a short time and thought she was making the right decision but didn’t know how much it would hurt op and she never wanted to make her feel that way. She clearly already feels remorse so I think she should just express that

Cameron Adams

For the eras story, as someone who lost both parents by the age of 20, OP IS NOT THE ASSHOLE AT ALL! She went above and beyond and intentionally put things in place to help them feel supported even while she could not physically be there. Making meals and doing laundry without even being asked, OP is clearly thoughtful and a genuine good friend. These seem like small things but when you’re grieving such a significant loss you don’t realize how hard the small things are to even do. Everyone grieves differently but I couldn’t imagine asking someone to give up something important just to be there with me. She provided support before and offered to take off of work after. Hopefully SIL realizes this once she’s in a better headspace to reflect on it. OP is right, people can have really out of character responses/reactions when grieving. She’s likely angry at the world and, in her mind, OP gave her someone to take it out on. Love that OP has the insight to give her grace in that too!

Logan Bateman

breaking this out on the next episode lol

Two Hot Takes

I will say I think you could handle the ones this year :) Lauren is the same way and she said they were okay!

Two Hot Takes

Woman of the hours is amazing! Everyone should watch it to support her debut directorial!!

Lindsey Sumichrast

you said “hows the cleaning?” and i was like omg i usually do listen to this when im cleaning. and then you said “hows the gym?” and i stopped mid set in shock 😂

ana

Omg Lauren that last story about the earrings had me cracking up 😂

Sol VA

The last one pissed me off 😫😂😂 I could never imagine hurting my partner that deep, real or not.

Sophia Whittles

Kendra's new movie is so good

Brianna Schwartz

Also I’m so sorry about your horse, that’s so scary! Glad they are okay now

Haley Hightower

Please keep the spooky stories to October!! I’m glad people who love them got to enjoy them but I am admittedly a big chicken and I couldn’t watch any of the spooky THT or FKS stories and I missed my fav podcasts lol. P.s you do an amazing job running the podcast and putting out SO much content for us each week. Be proud!!

Haley Hightower

I would LOVE to hear some spooky Christmas stories in December pleaseeee :)

Iman Amran

I went through something similar to the eras story. My dad died 2 yrs ago and we don't have a ton of support. My husband reached out to his sister to ask if she could watch our son for a few hrs so he could see my dad one last time and say goodbye, and she said no because she had a wine weekend with friends in the same town my parents lived. I think the support that person did provide made the difference. Effort and empathy make the difference. It's be one thing if she said no to EVERYTHING and went to the concert

Jasmine Walters

I was curious about the saying, "A Kettle of Fish". The expression "a kettle of fish" means "a real mess." Used mostly in northern England and Scotland. Most people who use this expression say either "a fine kettle of fish" or "a pretty kettle of fish," though what they're describing isn't fine or pretty.

Nikki Martinez


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