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Extra Episode: 5 Conversation With a Pre-Spanking Parent

If you have not subscribed to my podcast The Situational Podcast, you can find it on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.  Episode 5 is the beginning of this conversation I have with a Pre-Spanking Parent.  It was a great discussion and toward the end he started discussing the trauma of being in the Navy and the hierarchal system. We went into a further discussion and then also I forgot I was recording so you also hear some of my discussion with Tik-Tok.  What was your favorite part? &n...

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My Great-Grandmother's Cup



I went to my favorite bar the other day.  I don't drink, but I love visiting places where people drink and reading books.  I don't know why people give such grief to individuals who like to read at the bar, it is one of the best silent pick-up lines in the world.  Not that I am into "pick up" culture.  I prefer a genuine interaction, but my being at the bar ...

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If You Were Told You Were The Problem Child!

I made a video to explain why you were not. 

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An Actual Review I l Left on Zubtitle. If I Start Wearing Their Merch This Is Why.

Jon really helped me out today. Like genuinely.  You all must have a small team and know each other like personally.  I wanna talk about Zubtitle for a little bit.  You know, it has actually been a pretty cool program.  When I first started using it, I think I had expectations of it that you did not put out.  You were talking about putting out content for social media and I usually make longer form content.  Which I think is part of the problem of why it is so di...

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Rice krispies

So I took myself out to get dessert because who knows when covid levels will rise again. And so when they do, I want to have good memories of freedom to look at it. I mean, it's the covid levels right now, but one day, it will be because the temperature outside has reached an unsafe level. Anyway, I ordered this smores thing. And I was eating it, and I didn't wanna be like weird, but I know rice Krispie treats when I see them. But I didn't want to ask and then find out they were like "organic...

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I Finally Made a Podcast.

So my mother recently informed me that I was her retirement plan. A fact I am not too happy about. However, I do need to repay her for the gift of life.  Get ready for a wild ride.  New episodes and exclusive content here first!

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You Don't Need Stimulation Medication To Treat ADHD

Do you think you need stimulant medication to treat ADHD? Because you don't and here is why. 

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Addressing HealthGamerGG

I am so tired of Pyschiatrists repeating the lie that the problems we call Mental Illness are a result of something we've down wrong. 

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How to Stay Sane Living in a Dystopia

How to Stay Sane Living in a Dystopia

It is November 22, 2022, and today is the day I have decided to accept that we live in a Dystopia. And with that comes a certain feeling of freedom and happiness that I did not expect.

  1. A dystopia is an imagined state or society with great suffering or injustice, typically totalitarian or post-apocalyptic.

I love dystopian literature. Some of my favorite books are dystopian, including 1984, Brave New World, and The Hunger Game...

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A Metaversal Theory of Depression


So, I expect quite a few people to come to my Patreon from my video on The Metabolic Theory of Depression.  At the end of the video, I say that I will lay out my Theory of Mental Illness as well as solutions.  It is 6:10 PM 11/16/2022 and I worked on the video for the Metabolic Theory all day today.  My depression video is not up, but I want to make sure it is of high quali...

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Why Would You Do That?

I was on Tik Tok and I came across this video.  In  the video you see what is clearly a celebration.  At some point an unidentified male in the video takes the cake that I assume his daughter was enjoying and smashes it into her face.  Her sister is then heard off screen asking "Why Would You Do That?".  And honestly, I was wondering the same damn thing.  What is the purpose of doing something this cruel?  Who does it serve?  

I know many people ...

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Becoming The Situational Therapist

Boy am I not a fan of waiting...

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Nier Automata: Making Things Easier on Yourself

So I talk a lot about using video games as therapy tools.  Here is a video that is up a full week earlier for my patrons!  I hope you all enjoy it!

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Lordy I Have a Fear of Being Misunderstood

It seems like every single day of my life someone assumes im being sarcastic when I am being genuine and it is genuinely annoying.

As someone with a big heart and lots of empathy for even the worst people, it is difficult to find a place where people understand what its like to be told you're doing something that you arent doing.

And have no real way to defend against it.

It is extemely triggering for me.

The difference is I used to get sad.

Now I just...

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An ADHD Horror Story


So, I have an ADHD Horror story for you from my upcoming YouTube video where I talk with my good friend Cody, Code Name: Code Grey, about the diagnostic and statistical manual. Not many people know all the ways the DSM can be used to hurt you and unfortunately, my client had to find out the hard way.  The full video will be released on my Youtube Channel on Sunday 11/6/2022 at 3:00PM PST!  Thank you for your support!

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The Ultimate Metaversal ADHD Cure

I recently had quite the thought the other day.  It was one of those thoughts you don't share with people who are at place emotionally where comprehending ideas of infinity might cause them difficulty. 

So, if you are someone who struggles with maintaining a grip on a reality that isn't terrifying, then please skip this post.  The cure is "Do it because if you don't someone else will and they are gonna do a really bad job of it".

Seriously, if you are prone to Panic...

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Thank You All Again


I just wanted to stop by and say thank you. There is no reason you have to keep supporting me as my patreon is so thin and I just want you to know I appreciate it.  I am going to hire me a social media manager and I promise...I will remember you all. Thank you so much again. 

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Upcoming Article on Spanking


I know I have a very diverse group of patrons and this particular article is written with The Black Experience in mind. I would ask that you refrain from commenting on specifics of this experience and rather let me know if the article hits emotional points for you.  Thank you all and I look forward to providing you with more pre-release content.

Thank you, Dr. Stacey Patton for...

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Two Week Break

Patreon, I am taking a two week break because I am burned out. But when I get back...I am going to make sure to return the value you have provided in my life. It is time to get streamlined.

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Speaking further...

Hey patrons, could you do me a favor and share this in as many places as possible?

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I Sorry Everyone

Even though I don't know what to say sometimes, that doesnt mean that I shouldnt speak. I suppose I wish to explain what has happened.

I need you to understand something.  You are about to read me be very open and very honest, but make no mistake...it is a conscious choice to do so.   A lot of people really underestimate my ability to be able to read people as well as often project quite a few things on to me.  I know this because I am more fully aware of my perspect...

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My Journey To Pride

https://youtu.be/Cvwzhcyawcc

"Are You Gay?"   


When I was younger, everyone around me accused me of being gay. As a result, my earliest memories of my life all include trying to convince people that I was not, in fact, gay.


 Of course, people will say that I am exaggerating, but I am not.  More often than not, people either assumed I was gay, asked if I was gay, or ...

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Off My Chest

Y'all,

I need to get something off of my chest. I am so frustrated. Like...I wish sometimes I was an unscrupulous person because I could have made like a million dollars right now. I just don't know how to ethically monetize a community that connects with me primarily because of the fact that I speak to things they are unable to speak to.

At the same time, I need to monetize so I can do more work for them.  I am going to start posting more things here.  I suppose I can u...

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My App is Finally Up!


If you are signed up for $9.99 or above, you already have a membership.  Simply reply back to this post with your signed up username and I will add your subscription. I will also get you access to the patreon only discord!


Apple-https://apps.apple.com/app/id1563728263

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What are some questions you have for a therapist?

I need some new content and im switching to working with my community directly. I need help coming up with new articles! Could you please me some questions so I can answer them?

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Chapter (1?) of my book.

I am in the process of putting new content on my app! If you are subscribed at the $9.99 or higher tier you will automatically get access when it is released on google play and IOS!


# It Is a Personal Choice...

whether or not to confront your parents with your decision to conceptualize the way they raised you (using spanking) as abusive.  I promise you that if you do, on the spectrum of responses, you will hear many things.  Some parents will break down into t...

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Whats up supporters?

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A quick secret


Can I tell yall a secret?  I really and trully wanna help them parents that be hitting they kids.   They who I want to help the most, but I just get so impatient because of what they are doing. But the truth is they dont understand the irreparable damage they are causing they're children and theres no way to definitively test it.


I feel like it is so bad, i...

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Situation #001 (HELP ME WRITE MY BOOK!)

I was so focused on punishing parents who spank their kids, that I forgot about those kids as adults. Y'all, because you grew up that way, there are certain "issues" you are going to have in life and because of those "issues" you will find yourself getting in the same kinds of situations over and over again. Don't worry though, I am going to teach you to the best of my ability how to deal with them.  

This first situation is one that I struggle with often, and that situation is inf...

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So I was on a Podcast About Setting Fees as Therapist!

Hey guys I was on this podcast and I thought you might like to see it!

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