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First We Dreamt It. Now Let’s Accomplish It.

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Christmas Portraits

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Carrying Me

One thing we can often forget in a marriage is the importance of being the strength for the other when they need it.

It should never be a burden to hold up your loved one when they are going through a hardship of any kind. This is the ultimate show of love.

And when you are the one in the valley, you should be able to also be carried back to strength. This is how we grow together and do this journey of life stronger and with more confidence.

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Are Men Really Alone?

It’s become quite concerning how often we have conversations with men that feel entirely alone.

Even men with wives, friends, families, jobs, “success”.

But there has been an increasing number of men who don’t feel seen. Dont feel heard. Are ashamed or afraid of being themselves at the risk of the harsh judgement that has increased for them lately.

What we wanna always remind everyone is that we need each other.

Yes, we are different. But those differences ...

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We Are No Superheroes

Even though we have been together for 17 years, we are still always having to learn and grow in our relationship.

We have this addiction with always trying to up the game on how deep our connection can go.

Mentally, physically, and spiritually.

We do this through various ways like deep talks, new forms of intimacy, ETC

But we also recently just purchased 5 books for us to read together and learn more about each other. These books will allow us to be able to explore...

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-Spankings (Why Do We Like them Now?)

So the other day I was thinking about how a lot of us like being spanked when things get intense and the irony behind it.

Both me and Josiah grew up in households where we were spanked as punishment. There was never once that either one of us enjoyed it. In fact, like every kid, we avoided it at all costs.

Now we’re adults and spanking is fun?

To clarify Josiah still hates being spanked. When I slap his butt he hates it. Lol. But I love it and it’s pretty confusing. <...

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Being a Girl

Is honestly tiring at times.

Be sexy but not slutty. Like a sexy nonslut robot of some kind. Cause anything else isn’t wifey. And who determines that, well whoever the current person your talking to is.

Have the answers but not too many answers or your stepping on toes.

Be wifey. Be mommy. But keep the model body party girl alive enough to still be wanted around.

Be happy and peaceful. Be everyone’s BFF. Don’t let your emotions run you. Keep the presentation ...

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Our Patreon. Our Love. Our Community.

So what happens now with this page. New sites. New socials. Are you all disappearing?

Not at all. This page is actually just going to be going back to its founding mindset.

Talking about relationships and documenting adventures as a married couple.

The only difference is the hub for it all will be YouTube.

And that being said, we have a new adventure and coffee talk coming up next week, a bigger adventure the week after, and all the love and deep relationship talk ...

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Lost Drive For Passion? 🥲

This is a real as it gets. Everyone has those down moments. Those dips. Those lulls where you can’t figure out why your drive for love making and passion isn’t there.

We are no super hero’s. It happens to us too. Whether it’s a few days or a few weeks.

But there’s typically a few reasons for this. 🤔

1: Stress. When life gets just too much it’s a complete and total killer for your health. Mentally and physically. But it’s also a killer of your love life. F...

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We Just Can’t Escape Each Other

I remember when we first got together, and everyone said that we were way too hot for each other way too fast.

They said it was an infatuation thing and it would die down with time. Well, here we are almost 2 decades later, and still have the exact same passion for each other!

Maybe the infatuation that they were talking about was really a level of love that they couldn’t understand. It’s not dependency or an unhealthy desire for each other that connects this strongly.

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Being together or Being Present?

Being together is no longer enough.


This world has gotta so fast. It’s gotta loud. It’s gotten distracting. So being together is not the the same thing as being present with each other.


We often see couples sitting at a restaurant on their phones or just eating in silence and often think how sad that is.

Sad that there is so much that pulls at our attention to the point that the person that matters most is often put behind the things that dont ma...

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St. Thomas Virgin Islands in a Pandemic

We are finally starting to get the chance to get back on the road!

Why not a little flash back while we’re at it. 😃

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Making Love = Making A Promise?

I remember when we were taught that having sex with someone is the equivalent to a promise. In fact, I remember even more restraint with promise rings. The promise to keep yourself for marriage.

Obviously, that culture is now long gone. But what if we still kept some of its energy?

What if before we had sex with someone, we had the mindset of committing to that person. To their happiness. To their fulfillment. To find a way to spend your life in the pursuit of loving that person....

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Peace = Perfection

Too often we forget the incredible importance of peace. Often in relationships we fight for provision or beauty or sex or romance or companionship. I could go on and on.

And there’s nothing wrong with these things alone.

But without peace they won’t last.


Don’t forget your peace. Don’t forget to be peace for each other. It’s eveything. ❤️

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New Tiers!! 😃

So lately we have been getting asked about a large variety of topics.

There are people on our YouTube page that want more travel, relationship, and reaction videos.

There are those who are already in relationships who want more sex advise and adult topics that maybe some people from the YouTube may not appreciate.

So to accommodate everyone, we decided to change up the tiers a bit based on what levels you feel comfortable with.

These tiers are designed based on how...

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Oh Excuse Me 😉

Didn’t see you there.

Well if you are seeing this post, it means you are part of the top 2 tiers on this Patreon page.

Yes. We just added another tier based on requests that we’ve been getting, and we will tell eveyone about them in the next post.

But for now we wanted you to be the first to hear about it.

If you are reading this post it means you either really believe in us, or that you are interested in reading about a healthy sex life.

Or both. 😉 <...

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Coffee Talk is Coming Back!! 😃

We got another coffee talk coming this evening. It’s been a min so we are so excited to finally be back!! ☕️

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Focus Up

So many people are running hard after sex but forget to focus on loving others.

So people many are focused on getting someone that they forget how to keep someone.

You are more than your sex appeal. You deserve to be loved and have to chance to love even harder.

So let’s focus up.

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3 Day Weekend!! 💋

More time for love making, good times, and deeper connection. With memories to be shared and made with the ones you love. I mean what could be better than that.

Oh and maybe another Coffee Talk 😉


Have the best weekend every y’all! Stay safe. Stay healthy. Stay pursuing the best in each of you. 💕

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It’s About Connection

We as humans have an innate need to connect. We do this in a lot of ways. Friendship. Family. Romance. Camaraderie. Shared interests. ETC.

But there isn’t a deeper way to connect than through intimacy and sex.

That’s why marriages are so incredibly effected by the health of a sex life. Without a healthy sex life, we are hanging our hats on non exclusive connections that we also share with others.

This leads us to the trapped roommate effect that a lot of marriages fee...

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Servicing Him 💋

I’ve heard girls say that they hate giving blow jobs. I never understand that.

Ok maybe if I was hooking up with a random guy (which I would never do anyway) I could understand that. Mostly because I don’t know where his penis has been.

But if you’re gonna let in some places, why not all of them?

But that’s beside the point.

I don’t understand when you’re married and feel that way because I don’t know a single man that doesn’t enjoy it, and love is ...

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Servicing Her 💋

We very often talk about a girls needs. Maybe because some girls are more complicated in some areas of sex. That open communication is so vital to having a healthy sex life.

Every girl is different, so finding her zones, desires, and what simulates her mind is huge. And I’m talking down to detail. How much. How frequent. How aggressive. Eveything.

If that is done correctly, she will respond with the best connection and orgasms in return. ❤️

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Kings And Queens 💋

As kings and queens we make love as equals. Both fighting for the others fulfillment. Both looking for ways to impress the other.

This addiction only adds to the desire for the other even more. How much can you give? That’s the question that leads to how much you receive.

And that causes us to spiral up and up and up. ❤️

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Spoil Her With Kisses

Here’s a list of 10 things you can do your for lady that cost you nothing.

1: Spoiler her with kisses

2: Cuddle her until she falls asleep


3: Play with her hair

4: Scratch her back

5. Give her a body message without expecting anything back

6: Make her laugh a lot

7: Tell her in person how beautiful she is and why you are a lucky man. The more random the moment, the better.

8: Dote on her in public

9: Do 1 of the things sh...

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Making Love While In Love

Clearly everyone knows that making love is the best. It feels good. It’s fun. It’s connection.


But we really believe that making love while in love is a type of sex that just can’t be touched by anything else. It is so deep. So personal. So connected. It’s like you are actually absorbed into each other.

So while sex is awesome, love is the drug that hightens love making beyond anything else that exists. ❤️

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Spending Time Naked

So often we think of nudity and intimacy as always having to be sex. Really intimacy is just a fancy way of connecting. Sometimes sex doesn’t have to happen. It can, but it’s not required. Sometimes it’s as simple as cuddling.

We recommend naked hangouts. They have a sexy vibe, and are a physical connection, but it’s also a great way to connect mentally and emotionally as well. Real soul searching.

Happy cuddle times ❤️

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Hang Out with Us

We are finally on to answer your questions!! Come hang out for a bit and let’s dicusss next steps for this page also 😀

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It’s Easy to Serve

When you love someone, it’s easy to serve them. I hear all the time that marriage is like slavery and women shouldn’t have to serve their husbands.

But the truth is both people should always be serving each other. And when you truly love someone, it isn’t a job, it’s a privilege.

I love serving him. And I know he loves to serve me also. There is complete fulfillment in it when it’s done right. Let’s just not forget about love. ❤️

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Grab Your Cup of Coffee. Lets Talk 😊

The second episode of “Coffee Talk” is now live.

This morning we are discussing the topic of “Are Men Scared to Open Up About Their Feelings?”

It’s gonna be a fun conversation! ☕️😊

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Intimacy Matters

We are not afraid of promoting healthy intimacy because it matters a lot to us.

Especially in a world of porn and onlyfans, people aren’t really looking for the real deal anymore. And honestly, we don’t blame them.

It’s been so screwed up.


But we have felt the real thing and now desire everyone to have it also! It’s life changing. ❤️

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