The 28 Laws Of Seduction: Part 6 - 11
Added 2022-11-08 14:34:51 +0000 UTCLAW 6: You Can Give A Woman Everything, Except boredom.
This law highlights some of the deepest levels of female nature.
Women enjoy feeling negative emotions just as much as they do positive ones.
I say this to be able to make this law's title make more sense.
Men are the adrenaline junkies but women are addicts to high spikes of dopamine too. Often you will watch girls complain about their toxic ex but simp and go running back to him when he decides to pop back around.
I highly recommend watching this show. It does a great job of showing how women secretly crave ups and downs and uncertainty in a man.
https://www.netflix.com/title/80991848
This is because he is unpredictable, he keeps her guessing, he keeps her crying, he keeps her chasing and this is more fun to her even at the cost of getting hurt.
Women love drama, it is a drug to them and they want their love life to feel like the movies.
No movie is a good movie without some ups and downs.
Will every woman want a toxic man. No.
But I can whole heartedly say that no woman wants a boring man.
A woman will break all her rules for the guy who gives her this rush of intense emotions.
Some women will try to hide from this reality and date men who are the safe choice. Yet they always end up bitching at these men 24/7.
Some women will marry a sucker after overdosing on the emotional carousel an alpha male puts them through. Couples like this will either get divorced or just have a sexless marriage.
(The show I recommended does a great job of demonstrating this)
Women who are self aware on the other hand will leave the alpha male, date a sucker, realise he is BORING and then go right back to chasing after the roller coaster like experience that the alpha male provides.
Most (NOT ALL) women would even rather share an alpha with another women than face the mundane lifestyle of dating a boring sucker.
What you need to take from this is not to be afraid to cause a little drama with her sometimes.
This is why a lot of women love "make up sex" and this is basically when you have sex with them after a crazy argument.
Women perform much better in the bedroom after drama. Because arguing with you turns her on, rough sex turns her on, and this is accomplished by building tension through arguing.
You don't have to be arguing with her to get these same effects, you just gotta stop being such an overly agreeable nice guy with no back bone all the time.
Law 7: Acknowledge her attraction to you
One of the best things you can do when you are with a girl is to tease her when she shows signs that she likes you.
This is a way of breaking the ice and making it clear to her that you can read her like a book.
Example:
If she does something sweet for you, you could say something like:
"Look at you falling in love with me already 😏😏"
This does multiple things:
1. you are reaffirming to her own mind that she does indeed like you, making her subconsciously give into these feelings of attraction.
2. She sees you pointing it out as being extremely confident. You are not scared to stroke your own ego in front of her.
Women never directly show interest, they do it subliminally and if you are
able to recognise these hints then she starts to think...
“damn he must have other girls giving him these signs all the time if he knows how to spot them”.
All women are turned on by the thought of being with a man other women want.
Being with a man who has fucked a lot of other women because this means he will be good in bed.
Women don't want to have to be direct with their interests, they want to be
seduced.
So you must break the ice for her or else she will hide her interest for you till the
ice caps melt. The sooner you make it known that you know she wants you, the less she will try to hide it and instead start to act on it.
LAW 8: Talk more with your eyes than your mouth
We have all heard the saying “the eyes are the window to the soul”.
This quote could not hold any more truth.
When you learn how to talk with your eyes you unlock a side to women that the majority of men never will.
This will cause her to crumble inside as you are holding eye contact in a way the majority of men are too shy to do with her.
Doing this displays confidence and dominance. There is no way for me to put into words what it does to a female when you soul gaze with your eyes.
It just triggers something within her that has never been activated before.
I use this gaze when talking to women to turn them on and make them feel a deep sense of intimacy.
Here is the article I have written ALL about eye contact. Very important:
LAW 9: Always say less than necessary
To start, I want to clarify that this law is subjective. It is mainly for when talking
over text and when she is mad at you.
The reason I say to say less than necessary over text is for multiple reasons:
1. Because your goal shouldn’t be to text her but to get her to come see you face to face.
Men who text a girl all day everyday eventually push her away because he is feeding her constant attention 24/7.
When In truth she NEEDS to have time to miss you.
Her time away from you is when her mind is allowed to run.
She will become lost in her thoughts and start to wonder if you are talking to other girls, if you are losing interest in her etc and this encourages her to simp over you.
Again, uncertainty.
2. You can't game her over text, I don't care what anyone tells you.
Unless you are voice messaging her, there is no tone of voice or facial expressions involved over text which is 60% of how proper game is conveyed.
She needs to hear your voice to feel your words.
Text is so emotionless and women are emotional creatures. You cannot make her feel emotions as strongly over text.
So you are only hurting yourself the more you talk to her through a screen rather than face to face.
Most younger girls nowadays hate phone calls and voice notes themselves but don't allow THAT be the reason why YOU don't send voice messages.
Another reason why I like sending voice messages is because it doesn’t allow people to be able to preview it like a written message.
Many people (especially women) like to preview and half swipe/open messages and then not respond for hours later. But you cannot do that with Voice messages.
So with women being naturally curious, they will be desperately want to hear what I said and it actually gets them to respond in a proper time frame.
Use their nature against them.
Not every message has to be a voice message but mix it up from time to time.
Again, be unpredictable.
3. Lastly, men who argue with women do not understand women.
When was the last time talking common sense to a woman ever worked?
She cannot be rational when she cannot think beyond what she feels.
Her emotions will overpower her logic leaving you pretty much trying to rationalise with a wall.
You will never get anywhere talking to her when she is upset so just shut up.
Let her calm down and she will eventually fall back into your frame.
LAW 10: She needs to feel not think
If there is any law you should reread over and over until it sticks in your mind it is
this one.
Men fail with women because they try to persuade her mind instead of making
her feel something.
Thinking that if he presents a logical reason for her to be with him, she will.
He fails to realise he cannot make her think her way into liking him, he must
make her feel her way into liking him.
Once again... women are predominantly emotional beings.
You have to stop thinking in terms of how YOU are attracted to women but instead how women are attracted to men.
Men gain attraction through logic.
Men spend their time contemplating what life would LOOK like with her.
Women spend their time contemplating what life would FEEL like with him.
You'll see men with lots of money and status still fail terribly with women because he thinks she follows reasoning.
This ties into earlier laws on how women treat emotions like drugs. They are searching for the man that feels like an escape from her mind, not the man who makes her think.
Don't concentrate too much on what you can provide for her materialistically but
more on what you can provide emotionally.
Mens emotions are created by how they think, women think based on what
they feel.
If you wish for her to think about you in a sexual or intimate way you must
make her feel it first and than this will cause her to think about you more.
This law is harder for most men to comprehend because they have to step out of the masculine frame and into the feminine.
If you want to attract females you have to think like a female and this is opposite to the way a man's mind works.
LAW 11: She is unconscious of her own nature
The types of men women complain about are always the men they will continue to
date.
She complains about these men because her ex was one of them and instead of
realising her attraction to “toxic” men she will complain and bitch instead.
Women all love the emotionless bad boy but then they will sit and say
“I just want a nice guy who is in touch with his feminine side”.
You know who gets dumped / cheated on? The guy who shows his
emotions. Yet women will preach for days how much they want an emotional man.
What a woman thinks and says she's attracted to is completely different than what she is actually attracted to.
She'll cry her eyes TO THE NICE GUY over a guy, swear on her life she'll never be back with him again, but then a few days go by... and you know what happens?
He texts her to come over and she is on her way over within minutes as if nothing ever happened.
Another example is that women say they hate misogynists but why do the majority of them all go for the guys who think they are better than her?
Because she can't be submissive to an equal, she will only submit to the
man she looks up to.
But women have been brainwashed by feminism and that the idea of
being submissive is a form of oppression.
Even though deep down she craves nothing more than finding a dominant man to submit to.
This brainwashing has caused her mind to be at war with her nature but her nature will always win.
Do not be afraid to show a woman that you think you are stronger, a better
decision maker, and smarter than her. Women who aren't brainwashed may get mad at you for a min... but then her biology will kick in.
Remember, you aren't being misogynistic, you are being realistic.
In part 3 I will cover laws 12 - 18 :)
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Till next time.
