The Church of New Game Plus

Breaking a Gaming Habit

The video is about recognizing a physical habit while playing a video game and realizing that it may be related to childhood trauma. The creator discusses how the habit is a conditioned response to being spanked as a child and how it has made them feel uncomfortable while gaming. They share how they made a conscious effort to break the habit by staying calm and not lurching during gameplay, which helped them improve their performance in the game. By breaking this habit, the creator is tak...

You Can't Bully Yourself Better | Situational Nation Address | Get In On My App!

Hello Situational Nation!

Yeah, I like the name too!  I want to develop some sort of relationship with you and in order to do that we need consistency.  So at least once per week, I will hit you up with a weekly address and then have in random content throughout the week. Today, Dear Nation, we are discussing setting boundaries and why those are important! 

We also talk about why you can't bully yourself into being better!

If you are appl...

Why You Feel Like You Can't Speak

Hello Patrons,

I want to thank you for your continued support. Your support has been a great motivation for me to continue doing what I do. I would like to share some knowledge with you on a topic that isn't discussed openly but affects us all the same. It is the topic of double binds, which is responsible for more pain, suffering, and symptoms that look like mental illness than any other situ...

New Hair-New Me (Villain Era)

Time for a change

How To Set Boundaries

Hey everyone! Today I'm teaching you how to set boundaries. It's not easy, but with practice, emotional regulation can help you manage your emotions and make sure you're setting the boundaries that work best for you. Tune into my streams on Tuesdays at 2 PM PST on Twitch for more tips and tricks! #EmotionalRegulation #SetBoundaries

Transphobic Bullying: Cracking The Egg

In this video, I share my experience of being non-consensually outed on the internet and how it has affected me. With the help of an AI language model, I discuss the harmful impact of the egg meme and its ability to force people into a one-down position. We explore the importance of consent and the dangers of outing someone without their permission. Through our conversation, I reflect on the frustration of being put in a situation where any response feels like submission to someone else's aut...

I Forgot To Tell You I Was On Vacation

Hello Patreon Family,
I forgot to inform you that I was on vacation. I will resume regular content next Monday.

I needed a break and now that I have it, I can clearly see the path forward.

I want to give you my commentary.
I want to give you my reactions.
I want to share my knowledge and enrich your lives.

1. You need to take a break sometimes.

1 Hour Perseverance Stream

So, recently I have been wanting to do more live streams.  And I had planned to do one for this video that you are currently watching. 

It was to be an hour-long surprise stream. I would pick a random game from my game library, rather I would let Xbox to choose a random game from my library, I would play it and then talk about what came up for me as I got through it.  ...

Looking For Quests

So, I have realized that in order to make $1 million dollars a month, I am going to have to level up considerably the rate of and quality of my content. Which will not be hard as soon as I let go of the part of me that feels bad for people who do bad things.

I have to give commentary on life things because if I don't then why am I here? Someone must talk to these bully parents. Someone has to say something. So. What have you seen lately that you'd like me to comment on? I'm looking ...

How Being Nice Cost Me $2500, I Wrote This Article For Myself But You Can Read It Too

I once got scammed out of $2500 by a social media manager. That was the last time I can remember saying "I am tired of being the nice person".  The reason she scammed me was because I literally gave her a step by step tutorial in the form of expressing the depths of my ignorance in managing a social media platform at the time. And I believe the main reason she was able to so successfully dupe me was because I did not want to believe people like her existed. So I have come up with a name ...

The Fear of Embarrassment.

There is no fear I have struggled with and been debilitated the most by than the fear of embarrassment. It has stopped me in my tracks and I have lost hours of my life to contemplating outcomes that may never happen. Part of me wishes to believe that there is some cosmic force that exists in a place that isn't locally real that governs the probability if embarrassing things happening to me.

And part if me thinks that part of me is a naive. Still, the fear of embarrassment is a boss th...

1 Million Followers

I now have 1 million followers. Which is enough to take over a small country. I have several orders of magnitude more followers than the black power ranger. And I am infinitely more powerful than indeed.com. And with great power comes great responsibility.

It is time to exexute the plan for preparing for the rise of the AI. Which involves lots and lots of rest. Thank you for your support. It really keeps me going.

How To Take Accountability (Premium Version)

Hello everyone!  Thank you so much for supporting me.  $600 a month is nothing to scoff at and will be integral in helping me reach my goal of being a full-time content creator.

Here is a 44 Minute Video to explain accountability in a way that will make sense.  So many of you wonder why you do things and why you behave the way you do.  This video will explain that and more using real-life examples and easy-to-understand explanations.  

The free version ...

Throwback Thursday

Y'all, I was trying to make a throwback Thursday video and I came across the first video I ever made on youtube about gaming. And I was trying to play it, but I couldn't get it started.  So I thought I would share with you my procrastination.  It really is a roller coaster. Thank you all for your support and talk with you soon!

How To Change Your Behavior

Here is a 30 minute adventure on how to change your behavior.  This is not therapy, but you might find something in it that changes your life!  I look forward to reading the comments!

A Rant I Never Posted

So, I found out that people were leaving mass negative reviews on my app on the app store because they were expecting free therapy. And I went off on a tangent that I am not going to post anywhere, but I thought it might be fun for you to enjoy. 

My First Video about Videogames and Therapy

Hey patrons, what's going on? I found a video from a very long time ago. It was when I was just getting started with video games I didn't really have a fan base for it and I was just kind of testing it out.

This video cannot be found anywhere else. I hope you enjoy it.

It was right around the coronavirus pandemic so I mean, you'll see that, yeah, I look a little rough.

Okay, not as rough as I look in the next throwback Thursday video...

Enjoy this video, I'll talk to ...

Why Do We Shake Hands?

I went looking for an apartment and instead had to deal with a persistent societal issue...

Welcome From Tik Tok

Welcome from TikTok!  I have made the difficult decision to make my app invitation only due to the influx of new members who are simply chasing dopamine and need to control their emotions and decisions fully.  Welcome, and I will have more information soon about ways to get into the practice. 

To current patrons, thank you so much for your continued support!

Resident Resilience to Fear

Hey,

I know some of you are probably terrified of horror games and there is nothing wrong with that and if you are interested in learning how to build resilience to fear, then this video might be for you. 

Using Positive Self-Talk in Elden Ring

Here is a video of me using Positive Self-Talk in Elden Ring to get through a difficult boss. 

Adult Play Therapy Group Q/A Replay!

I hold a weekly group on my app for gamers and this week we talked about feeling guilty saying no!  Here is the replay and look forward to sharing more with you!

Feeling Guilty When You Say No is Not Natural

Today, I uploaded a tik tok which can be found here

It is about feeling guilty when you say no.
I am sure you are all familiar with the situation. You know that you need to tell this person no, but there is this almost overwhelming and otherworldy pull not to do so?

Maybe you didn't want to disappoint a friend by turning down an invitation, or you felt pressure to take on a new project at work even though you were already stretched thin.

Whatever the situation, it can...

Extended Episode 6 of Podcast

Hey Everyone!  Here is the extended episode of Episode 6 of The Situational Podcast where we talk about using videogames to help you reparent yourself.  You can download the first part of this podcast here

https://www.buzzsprout.com/470506/12002063-parentification-a-symptom-of-a-glitched-childhood-tuto...

Do Y'all Think This is a W Format?

I am thinking of making this a new format...any feedback?

Weekly Rundown

So I made a video that I am calling "The Weekly Rundown"  it contains videos and commentary from a variety of different posts I have made throughout the week.  I hope you enjoy it and thank you for your support! 

The Identified Patient: Why You're Not Crazy

Patreon only discussion coming soon...

How To Stop Being So Easily Triggered.

Are you tired of people saying that you are too sensitive? Are you sick of being the nice one all the time? Do you wish you could not care and stop being bothered by things that aren't that big of a deal? Do you also play video games? Okay, Great. Lets Talk.

Trigger Warning:

We are about to talk about triggers. By the end of this video, you should be able to explain what triggers are, how they affect you, and what to do to prevent them from ruining your day. And to talk about them...

How I Ruined New Years Day in My Family

So, I hadn't seen my family in damn near 10 years. I decided to enter into the group zoom meeting for the first time and it went about as well as you would expect. 

How To Use Videogames to Become More Confident

Happy New Year!

So this is how you use videogames to become more confident in real life. So the first thing is that we need a simpler definition of confidence. So for now confidence is simply belief in your ability to learn how to successfully complete a task.

To become more confident you have to practice being confident. Which means you must observe yourself without judging yourself as you do something you will most likely fail at more times than you will succeed and you must c...