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A Letter To My Future Daughter (Part 1)

1. You must start your self love journey as soon as possible. 

Narcissistic and abusive men love women who are not sure of themselves and are insecure.

These types of women will tolerate a man’s rubbish for the longest. Women who are extremely sure of themselves, love themselves and have a self esteem are aware there is always another man in the market who will treat with respect and treat her how she deserves to be treated in a relationship.

They know it wo...

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8 Lessons For Peace Of Mind

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A Letter To My Future Son

As a man, you must rest with the satisfaction of doing well and let others speak of you as they please.

Do the common things uncommonly well. This is a secret to success.

When it comes to women, you will be captivated by beauty but understand beauty cannot raise children, when you want something serious, you need a great character woman with the right traits who can raise your daughter(s) to be women and who will be behind your son until its time for you to take him ...

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Lessons I’d Teach My Daughter: Men Will Lie To Not Hurt Your Feelings

Men will come up with every excuse imaginable to avoid telling you the real reason why they didn't choose you.

Many women are left puzzled about why a guy didn't make them his girlfriend or wife, and they'll believe any excuse he offers.

"He’s not ready."

"He has a lot going on."

"He just got out of a relationship."

Here's the brutal truth: the reason he didn't ask you to be his girlfriend or wife is because you're not the one he wants to be with.

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Your 'Humbleness' Is Blocking Great Opportunities

Your humility is being misunderstood for incompetence.

If you find yourself getting constantly rejected for something you truly feel you deserve, this is the answer.

You are way too humble about it. You need to brag more.

Pride is something that many people have been taught to shun away from as a kid.

If you were brought up by middle-class or religious parents, they make you see pride as this evil thing. But is it evil? Maybe it is (in some sense)…

Bu...

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Subscription Business Models Are The Most Profitable 1-Person Business Anyone Can Start in 2024

Before you continue, you need to understand this in order for a subscription based business model to work:

https://www.patreon.com/posts/72953176?utm_campaign=postshare_creator

Having an audience on social media is a valuable asset in todays generation.

It can turn into a way for you to create content for an audience willing to pay more.

Or

You c...

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The Easy Way To Quit Vaping

It blows my mind to find out how many people are (secretly) addicted to vaping.

Vaping was originally designed as a tool to help cigarette smokers to quit, but vaping has gained massive popularity and has been normalised to the extent that it's now a common use in society.

However, it's important to remember that most vapes contain nicotine, which can lead to serious addiction and health issues with long-term use.

1. The first thing to replace is the constant hand-to...

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Lessons I'd Teach My Daughter: What Should Women Do When Their Boyfriend Is Not Ready For Marriage.

Every time you see him, you're imagining a wedding, complete with flowers and vows.

But it turns out, he's nowhere near that chapter.

He's everything you've ever wanted in a guy.

He's kind, loyal, good-looking, funny, hardworking, and caring. You can totally see yourself building a life with him that would make you happy.

Sometimes, you even wonder about potential names for your future kids or what they might look like.

But every time you talk about marriage,...

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33 Signs of Interest: A Guide to Understanding A Woman's Affection

1. She Looks for Reasons to Make Physical Contact  (High interest)

Women are usually very conscious and aware of their personal space. 

If a woman touches you a lot, it could be a clear indicator that she feels really comfortable around you. 

This could include behaviours like touching you frequently, giving you a playful shove, or complimenting your strength while feeling your muscles. 

On the flip side, if she's not into you, she'll likel...

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If you want learn how to make 10K a month Online, read this Google Doc

This is only for people who are entrepreneurial and interested in building an online business.

if not, you will quit when the going gets tough,

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BExyzdW4f0VdBNEOvv-B59Cv45qeFzbU2av7GWszw9w/edit

And then follow all of the sales, personal branding and business pieces of content I have put on here.

It's not ...

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If I Woke Up With Zero Money Tomorrow, This Would Be My EXACT 5 Year Plan

Once you have the knowledge and the discipline, you can create wealth over and over again.

A lot of people live in fear of hitting rock bottom. They've put in significant effort to get where they are today, and the thought of starting from scratch terrifies them.

They doubt whether they could achieve the same level of success again if they had to begin anew. This fear can be paralysing, keeping you away from taking risks or making changes that could potentially lead to even great...

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4 Sexual Traps & Temptations You Should Avoid

These temptations could potentially lead to long term regret or a bunch of added stress and misery in your life.

1. Having sex with people in relationships / marriages

When (SOME) people feel vulnerable in their relationship, they can look for comfort in another person to talk to their problems about

They will play the damsel in distress and tell you all kinds of sad stories:

“He/She is so abusive to me”

“He/She doesn’t...

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How To Get A Promotion & Get People To Like You At Work / Professional Settings

Main Goal = More money and a higher position.

The corporate world is a game you must master if you want to thrive in it.

These points should only be done if you are serious about thriving in your career.

Climbing the corporate ladder isn’t just about hard skills; it’s equally, if not more, about your soft skills and being likeable.

To secure promotions, these interpersonal skills make the difference, setting you apart as the favoured candidate for higher roles.

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The Void: Navigating Through The Uncertainties & Loneliness of Growth

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Why Your Ex Is Still Watching Your Stories

Sometimes we wonder why someone who broke up or ghosted us is still heavily invested in everything we are doing.

They always happen to be in the first few names whenever you post a new story online.

If they are not following you but are still watching everything then this means they are still invested into you as they have to take active steps in searching for your profile to look at what you are up to.

Their interest in you is much higher than someone ...

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Why Your EX Will HATE It When You Move On

1. You’re no longer stroking their ego

When someone dumps you, they often feel superior, especially if you pursued them after the breakup. But once you move on and stop paying them attention, it bruises their ego. This is even more pronounced if they see you happy with a new partner.

The reason it hurts is that they initially dumped you believing you couldn't do better and that your attempts to get back together fed their ego, confirming their inflated sense of self-worth. The...

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When A Man Has No Money…

When a man has no money or is financially struggling, he behaves in such a way that you think he’s senseless.

When a man has no money, he will have no respect from his wife. VERY few women will respect him, and that respect will have a limit.

If you don’t have any money as a man, your children will not respect you.

If you don’t have any money as a man, there’s a much higher chance of your daughter having an early unplanned teenage pregnancy.

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3 Emotions That Expose You to Manipulation

These will be three negative emotions that can kill your dreams.

These emotions are used to control people, lower their self esteem and ultimately trick them out of their greatest wants and desires.

1. Guilt Tripping

Feeling guilty is normal if you've actually wronged someone. However, if you haven't done anything harmful or destructive, don't let guilt overwhelm you.

Often, people will try to manipulate you by making you feel guilty for things you shouldn't...

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The World Will Punish You For Having Low Self Esteem

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Lessons I'd Teach My Daughter: Never Marry Just For 'Love'

*If you are a man reading, these points can be applied to you aswell *

Make sure the person you will choose for marriage, long term relationship or making children with, ticks your boxes.

  • Make sure he treats you well

  • Make sure his family treats you well.

  • He makes your financial status better and he is not a financial burden on you.

  • He is not a burden on you (Exception if he has disabilities)

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How Women Can Spot Potential Abusers

Self esteem & Self trust are the two most important factors to preventing being stuck in relationships with abusers.

A lot of women see RED FLAGS but they don't have the self esteem or trust themselves enough to say...

"I deserve better than this, I deserve to be safe"

They don't believe they deserve to be safe so they don't leave and will try to make things work instead.

They also don't have any trust in their ability to make a big decision to wher...

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What To Do If You're Always Overthinking About Your Future

Sometimes you’re so focused on that big breakthrough blessing, that you're overlooking the small blessings you’re receiving everyday.

Being a little bit worried is OK. This enables us to be action takers and not be complacent with what we are doing because it can help us plan effectively for the future by helping us think about possible problems and their solutions.

However, compulsively worrying about your future is genuinely exhausting. This makes us feel sick, confus...

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Things High Value Guys With Lots Of Money Can Do To Protect Themselves From Lawsuits By Women Who Want To Extort Them

Unfortunately, a man with money becomes a target in society, to other men and even women.

This post is mainly aimed at guys who are making a lot of money or are on a path where they will make a lot of money.

Toxic women who wana do a guy dirty, do not try to extort warehouse workers (respectfully)

Unfortunately these type of situations only happen with a few men who have achieved financial success and some toxic women may try to do something in order to get a big pay...

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The Ugly Realities Of Business

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You Need To Stop Underestimating What Money Can Do For Your Attractiveness.

If your going through a phase where you're not in front of people, then your appearance does not matter because nobody is seeing you.

But if your life and what you are building is being seen by society everyday, you must look good.

This is a none negotiable.

There are lots of people who love to use the example of how famous billionaires look like shit and people still kiss their ass but people are forgetting that these are FAMOUS BILLIONAIRES.

Those people are ...

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Age 25 - 30 : The Great Filter

At age 25, is where you will start to notice the difference between you and other people in terms of what stages of life you are in.

When you’re under 25, even if you’re working really hard on yourself you won’t see much difference with your age group because there hasn’t been enough time for your hard work to compound into what you want it to be.

Around age 25 you could either be entering in a managerial position, whilst other 25 years olds are just getting ...

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"I Have Social Anxiety, Help"

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Online Business: The BUSINESS Side, Creating Your Offer & Getting Clients

These following parts can be applied to any business model, whether it's online or not.

whether its a service based business or a business that offers a product.

And it can even bu adjusted in a way to secure sponsorships, contracts and deals but it'd have to be adjusted slighlty to fit those business model which don't involve selling products or services.

Part 1: Know Your Dream Buyer It’s all about understanding who needs your produc...

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Toxic Relationship GAME: How To DESTROY A BRATTY & ENTITLED Woman’s EGO

READ FIRST !!

This post is not to bash, talk down or to discriminate women. But if we are to keep it REAL, there are also toxic women who exist. It’s not only men.

This post is to help the men who like to deal with toxic women because some people love the toxic relationship games. Again, lets keep it real 💯 

IF YOU ARE A GOOD WOMAN WHO IS NOT TOXIC.

You can also learn from this.

If you notice a man behaving in the toxic ways I ...

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How To Build An Online Business (Part 1)

https://www.patreon.com/posts/how-to-use-your-101553269

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